Thursday, March 19, 2009

Team Work

James is flying in to help me get things taken care of because I have not been able to get one thing accomplished since I have been in Texas.

This has been such a frustrating trip and I hate not being able to get things done on my own. You know I am an independent women after all! James says he has never known me to ask for help and need help doing anything in 20 plus years of marriage!

Sometimes we have to ask for help and although I am not comfortable asking for help I am a firm believer that we all at one time or another needs help.

Still don't have my dog certified to fly over to Egypt, don't have the final word from LM of how they want to fly him or if they will even pay for-although they did agree to it in July when we came over.

My truck still is not working right, still have have not visited with my sister and her grand daughters, still have to pack up rest of the house and have movers pick up stuff and store it.

Monday, March 16, 2009

Finally seeing the sun here in Texas

Okay so just in time the sun has come out. I am happy to report that there will be no body. If you know me you know what that means! lol

I have enjoyed being home although I feel like I am running in circles not gotten too much accomplished yet because I am waiting for the powers that be to give us the information on shipping our dog and storing the rest of our belongings while we are in Egypt.

I still have family and friends I've not seen as of yet, but we or I will before we leave the country. James has been working hard to take care of as much as he can so that I have time for visiting.

I have talked more on my cell phone this past week than I have the last 6 months. It's kinda nice just going whenever I want but I do love my life in Egypt is so nice and stress free (thank you James for taking me to a 3rd world country) who would have guessed I would love it. So I can't wait to get back.

I have not taken one single picture while I have been home because I forgot to grab the camera. So I will post pictures when James brings the camera.

Thursday, March 12, 2009

In Texas :(

I really miss Egypt! It's cold and rainy here in Texas. The good weather was last week. I am working on getting Jac Pot (my border collie) ready to travel to Egypt. We got the second year (hooray) contract so that's what is making this trip great. I have seem my son, seen my bff that came to Egypt and my niece and my bff Angela took me to get a rental car. Each visit has been short too short but hopefully one more day of non stop phone calls and I can get to some serious visiting. I have not eaten at one resturant or fast food places-trying to loose a few pounds. Praying for great news on Thursday. Need to go out of town to spend sometime with my sister and go see the ocean. I need to get my hair done, my nails done, my expedition fixed, my house packed, my dog certified to travel, whew I am tired.

Jet lagg is not back coming back home! I did very well for traveling by myself for the first time. I miss my husband we never do well when we are apart. We can't sleep, I can't eat and we are on the phone alot. I miss my husband.

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Going Home

I hope to be back in Egypt soon.

Monday, February 23, 2009

We are all fine

We were not at the Khan this weekend.

Saturday, February 21, 2009

Random Stuff





Here are some pictures that I have been meaning to add just have not taken the time to do it.
Kief's birthday cake. Every year for as long as I can remember he has wanted a marble cake. At home I could find a bakery that makes them but here I figured I would do it all from scratch. I love making desserts. I did alright for not cooking for years!!!! Yes the icing was homemade a well.
The belly dancers are from the Nile river boat cruise we went on while Chris was here. The toddler was just precious and stole the show. If you remember the same thing happen on the last dinner boat cruise we went on. I think it makes it better myself.

Friday, February 20, 2009

Shopping in Egypt






James went running around with one of our guards (on his day off) and another guy from our team and this is what they found.
Now I am sure that it looks quite different from what we would see at home-depending on where you go. It was nice to go and see something not previously seen by us except from driving down the highway.
We are very fond of our guards and are grateful that they offer to take us and show us around town. look at the furniture and the rugs they are beautiful. I love seeing all the people.

Monday, February 9, 2009

My baby is 18! Where in the world did the time go.......

In a few days (when I am typing this) my baby will be 18. On one of my networking sites I have a friend who's daughter just celebrated her 5th birthday and every post she ways talking about how she was crying. I understand where she is coming from.

I remember thinking when my boys who are 17 months apart (and no I did not plan that) were little that they would never get big. It seemed like they were going to be toddlers forever! Having never been around infants or toddlers growing up I was always nervous always second guessing my parenting skills or lack there of. Honest to God if it had not been for Angela (my BFF sister) and Oprah and of course God I would not have made it. That is not an exaggeration. James was a wonderful father and had a niece and a whole bunch of nephews and cousins that he adored and who adored him and so he was quite skilled in the changing diapers, dressing, and playing with little ones. I on the other hand was raised by my granny who was old school lots of work and little play so believe it or not sitting in the floor playing was harder than housework and running the house. I remember thinking that they know I am not sure of myself and they can sense it. I could not wait for them to get bigger and I looked forward to the teenage years!

God blessed me with to very handsome, well behaved young men. Nothing that we have ever faced was very serious. I had it very easy and I am so thankful. I have great, caring, respectful, considerate, kids as I say in spite of our parenting. I am not bashing my self or my husband. I just saying we did'nt screw them up too bad! They turned out pretty good.

What I didn't count on is how very fast it seems to have gone. One moment I was in slow motion and the next it flew by. I know there was life living in those years that flew by man did it go fast. I tell everyone I know who asked (and some that don't) enjoy ever little moment even the bad days because in a heart beat it's gone-just memories. One minute your in a hurry and your little ones are hanging on to your leg and your trying to get loose so you can get on with your chore and in the next split second I would give anything to have that baby hanging on to my leg slowing me down because this time I would sqaut down and give a big hug as long as he need. Have I said I can not wait until I have grand Kids!!! Just a heads up they are going to be rotten!

Every birthday of my children I in a quite moment get their baby photo albums out and look through them and this year and for my oldest last birthday I won't do that because not thinking I had all the albums stored instead of bringing them and I really really miss that.

In case your wondering I am not sad. I am so excited for my baby being 18. I am excited to see the next 18 years to see all that he does and sees in his life. I wanted to take a moment to reflect on the past, thank God for the present, and dream of the future. To thank Angela as I do every time a birthday comes around for helping me through with all those phone calls! I love you:) and to tell anyone with small children grandchildren enjoy every single minute it goes by so very fast.

Don't forget to take that moment to get to their level and hug them til they let you go. One day you will miss that!!

Happy Birthday Kief
I love you

Sunday, February 8, 2009

Count your Blessings

Count Your Blessings
Author Unknown

Count your blessings instead of your crosses;
Count your gains instead of your losses.
Count your joys instead of your woes;
Count your friends instead of your foes.
Count your smiles instead of your tears;
Count your courage instead of your fears.
Count your full years instead of your lean;
Count your kind deeds instead of your mean.
Count your health instead of your wealth;
Count on God instead of yourself.

Father God, lift the heavy burdens off my heart and let me see this new day as You do. Give me strength to stand against the discouragement that weighs me down and help me defeat Satan's lies with praise to You for Your blessings. In Jesus' name, Amen.

Saturday, February 7, 2009

Consumer's Beware

We have all seen them around north Texas. A business that you can use so that you don't have to go into the United States Post Office. First let me say I have nothing against the USPS. I just did not want to stand in line when there were so many things on my list to do and if I could pay a little extra and have someone else do it for me then I was willing to do that.

Before we came to Egypt I started using one of these services that was on my way to and from work and was not out of the way if I was not going to work. I think I am a fairly intelligent person and THOUGHT I understood how these business work. I have to also add that some of them do offer great services that protect both the consumer and the owner/employee. There are however some that do not. I used this business for at least 6 months before we left the country. The owner is the person that I dealt with each and every time and I felt like I knew him to an extent of course. I know he used to be an engineer at Lockheed. What I did not know then was that he was the owner not that it made much of a difference. I thought he was very nice and pleasant each and every time I used his business. So here starts the reason for this blog.

In September of 2008 we ordered Kief (my son) a new laptop from Dell. Had it built specifically for gaming and school since as you all know he is home schooled. The only reason that I mention Dell by name is that they will not ship to an APO and that is what kind of address that we have in Egypt. So we had the laptop shipped to our house and when it arrived had our oldest son drive from UNT to our house as soon as his classes were over for the day. Chris went home picked up the laptop and per my instructions took it to one of these postal service business. Now here comes the important part.

I was told that everything is shipped first class (USPS) and insured for the value of the item $ 1,000 + in this case. There were actually 2 boxes. In the original shipped boxes from Dell. One small box contained the mouse, the other clearly marked Dell was the laptop.

In about 10 days we got the mouse. So we call the to locate the laptop (USPS) they say give it more time because from the paperwork we provided from the postal service it shows to be sent parcel and what that means is that when they have a flat full then they will ship it. What????

Needless to say there were many calls to my son and to this postal service. My sons response was I took it in there handed it to the guy and he filled out the paper work. The mouse was sent first class insured and the laptop (clearly marked) was sent according to the paper work parcel uninsured. So we have our son mail the paperwork to us so that we can look it over. Sure enough that's what was marked on the paperwork. We call the postal service and inquiry why the paperwork that he filled out was done that way. His response was that he filled it out incorrectly and that it was his mistake. The laptop still has not surfaced and we are into December.

Here is a side note and after I tell you this if you see my husband he will tell you that this is a correct character assessment of him. God love him and I do to. He trust and takes everyone at their word. No questions asked. Believe you me he has been taken advantaged of more times and by people who would shock you because he is very easy going and laid back and yes so very trusting. If you know him you know this is true. Me on the other hand not so much. Very few people have I ever meet that I trust. It takes me forever to let someone in close to me because it has been my experience that people are generally takers and not altogether honest most of the time-but that's a different blog- by the way I love that about James always have even when it cost us a lot. Would never want him to be like me. Believe you me during this time I spent a lot of time praying about me not having faith in people.

All the while I am getting angrier because at this point after the new year that someone clearly is being dishonest about something because not only could the postal service not locate the package, the US Embassy/APO was trying to track the package and the local USPS in Texas was looking for it.

The US Embassy instructed us file a claim through the originating USPS office. After doing that we were told that you can't file a claim on an item that does and has never was in the system. What?????
I am sure your all coming to the same conclusion then we must contact that postal service that we used and so we did. Now remember that each time we contacted him we were told by him that we needed to contact the USPS.

The last time we contacted him it was apparent that he felt he had no responsibility for proving that the laptop was in fact taken to the USPS, but he did direct us to contact the postmaster at the local USPS.

James call the postmaster at the local USPS and speaks with her and explains the whole sorted story and this is what she says to James.

You are paying that service to physically walk whatever item you are mailing to the counter of the USPS. It has been the USPS experience with this particular mailing service that they choose to let the USPS carrier pick up from their business instead of walking it up to the counter. What's the difference you ask? Well I will tell you. The difference is that per the mailing service business' own insurance company "His insured states that HE gave the laptop to the USPS carrier and they (the insurance company for the business) stands behind their insured and sorry that we lost our laptop". How do you like those apples. So in a nutshell let me recap. If you take anything into this business hand it over because you think they are responsible for it until it reaches the USPS and there will be documentation to protect you and the mailing service. That is not the case. It's his word against you and if you think the consumer is always right think again.

So the postmaster says that she will be happy to speak to the insurance agent of this business so we give her the information. A day later the mailing service owner/employee calls and says that the insurance agent that we spoke with will be calling us the next day to settle this matter.

The insurance company for the mailing service called and very matter of fact said that "It is in our insureds best interest to settle this claim and while they will not except liability they are offering to cover the amount we paid for the laptop because it was brand new". My first response was thank you God for them doing the right thing. My second response is that I have to talk about it because I want everyone to know that this could happen to them.

So here is my warning:

Please don't assume that you the consumer are protected. There are a number of these postal service that operate in a manner that protects both the owner and consumer. Even the USPS postmaster said that there are some in that town. The mailing service that I had been using had several complaints about it and there is another customer looking for their package. I did check the BBB and there were no complaints filed with them. We can not file a complaint because we accepted compensation for the laptop.

The other thing I want to tell you about is that while they did pay us the exact amount of the laptop they did not reimburse us for the shipping fee that we paid the postal service company to ship the laptop. So we paid over $20.00 for them to do whatever they did with the laptop.

Here is the other thing I want to share with you. Had we had any tracking software on the laptop they would have been able to track it ONCE it's booted up. Dell has put a flag on the laptop so that if someone calls in and gives the serial number/smart tag Dell will notify the authorities that it is a lost/stolen laptop. I am sure that you can figure out how to get around that as I did during the conversation with Dell. Also having tracking software is not a a guarantee that you will recover you laptop.

I am not anti mailing service now. Have you stood in line at your local USPS? There are some that are in north Texas that are horrible way under staffed for the amount of traffic. Just ask questions, find out the procedures.

A laptop at any amount is a lot of money to us, but just as important I don't want to do business with someone who doesn't care if I am unprotected. Your local USPS can give you a list of mailing service that operate in a way that you are protected. And one final thought. Had the laptop be scanned into the USPS center they would have covered it after 45 days of the original mailing date.

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

Feeling better already......

What a difference a day makes! Feeling better today not 100% just yet but feel better. So today to celebrate feeling better I went to the salon and had a facial! OMG it was great. I am going to put the name and address of the salon I use so that if anyone is looking for one please try it. There are a number of salon's in our area and I have heard great things about a lot of them. I was very lucky that someone who had been here for several years took me with here to her salon and I have been going thee ever since.

Beautique Road 198 Bldg 20 B Ground Floor Degla Maadi

I have my acrylic nails and pedicure's done there and massages done. Today was the first time I have had a facial and now I will be doing that every month! The prices are very good and the service is great.

I went to the doctor for a check up today after my facial and there were three of us ladies that know each other that were there getting treatment! Something is going around. James went yesterday because i just couldn't walk over to the clinic to get medications for me to start taking. Anyway I am on the road to recovery and hope to have my energy up by the time I met with my trainer.

The weather has been great it's beautiful here today.

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

Sick again.....

Okay I had like just a few days where I was feeling great then wouldnt ya know I caught something! Yuk. So when I get to feeling better I will finish putting the Coptic Church pictures on my blog. The day I was uploading them to blogger the internet was acting up and I gave up after the 4th attempt. So Hopefully when I am feeling better I will get back to sharing our day to day life.

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Coptic Church Tour





















In December I took a tour to see the Coptic Churches in Cairo. Here are a few of the pictures. I enjoyed this tour. The tour guide that we had was the same tour guide that took us to the Pyramids with Christopher.

Saturday, January 17, 2009

Prayers for my best friend and her family.....

My best friend Angela more like a sister to me lost her brother Darrell this week. Please say a prayer for her and her family. This is the second brother that she has lost and I know that they are just struggling with the grief of losing two so close together.

Darrell a very kind heart and a beautiful spirit. I am so glad that we got to see him when we attended Paige's dance program right before we came to Egypt. I had not seen Darrell in years and yet it seemed that he had always been around like we all just belonged there just like any other day! I swear he had not changed at all. I could go on and on about stories about Darrell but want I want to say most is that each and every time I seen him no matter how long it had been he had a hug and always something nice to say. Angela is of course close to all her brothers and sister but her and Darrell were really close and I know that her heart is breaking. I know we always think we have more time with our loved ones but the truth is we just don't know so I hope anyone who reads this takes the time to tell family and friends that they love them. Don't just assume you can do it another day!

I love you Angela and I wish I was there with you. I love you for saying we can be half a world away and comfort each other! I KNOW that Darrell is in a better place! Thank God for that.

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Missing that kid of mine!

Have not blogged in a while because my oldest has been here in Egypt with us. He is on his way back to the states. He had a great time and we had a great time showing all the great stuff we love about Egypt.

Today I am already missing him. So in a day or two I will share some pictures and get back to day to day life.

Monday, January 5, 2009

Making plans to go home................

We have been told that the contract for the second year has not been done and it at this point does not look like they are going to get it done. So as it stands right now we will be going home in July! It makes me sad but I know that if we are suppose to be here the contract will be worked out. There is a plan and I am okay with however it works out.

This has been the most amazing experience and we have learned so much in the short time we have lived here. Egypt was not one of those places that I had a desire to see sometime in my life, but I have to say that it has been amazing everyday here and I love living here!

I just don't have the words to describe what this experience has been like for me. What a wonderful people Egyptian's are. All I can say is this has truly been a blessing.

You can bet that if the contract gets worked out I will be putting that information on my blog.

Thursday, January 1, 2009

Happy New Year

We wish everyone a safe, healthy, prosperous 2009.

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

To take a home visit or not to take a home visit that IS the question?

So here is my problem I think I need to go home to check on things and I don't want to go. Oh don't get me wrong I really miss my family and friends but I just love life here in Egypt. So whats the debate you ask well I have a neice who is going through some stuff and she is very important to us and I don't want her to feel like she is alone. Then there is my beloved border collie that I have missed terribly since we left him at home. I have a niece looking after my place and my dog but I just have this feeling I need to be home and I have been trying to push it aside for about a month now.

First I was going to wait until summer so that we could go to another niece's wedding (which we plan to attend regardless if we go home early or not. See if I go now I don't want to stay six months til the wedding so I would go back not such a big deal at all except I don't want to miss anything here!

I asked James what we do and of course his answer is lets wait until we hear about the 2nd year. Which makes perfect sense but I still have this feeling I need to go home.

My son who is here returns home in January so I think I will wait and let him arrive home and see if that settles me. I would really love to fly with him home just so we could visit for 12 uninterrupted hours!

If the conflict to the east gets worse we may get a home leave regardless. While I feel very safe here and just had warnings of places to avoid I do realize that we are very close to it and though not scared by any means want to be cautious.

Okay well that's it I feel better I have had my struggle for today!

I still need to finish adding all the Italy pictures! We have spent a small fortune on getting pictures developed. I am trying to put them right away into albums so that I don't have the huge box like I have at home!

We are having the time of our lives.

Monday, December 29, 2008

Riding 4 wheelers in the desert!

Thanks Aunt Margie for the homemade candy! It is delicious!

On the way home we seen so many farmers with their sheep heading home for the day as well. It still cracks me up to see Camels being rode down a crowded street and flocks of sheep going down the rode.

It was a beautiful day you could see the pyramids very clearly. Out in the desert it was so quite and clear I swear you could see forever!



















We went to this place called Arabian Nights to ride 4 wheelers in the desert and had a blast! Can't wait to go back and stay all day!

Sunday, December 28, 2008

a break from Italy pictures!

We didn't buy as many presents as we normally do at home but the few that we had we put alot of thought into them and really tried to buy something that was really special. That was a huge success. The real difference was that at 12:01 we opened presents, the boys had wanted to do that for a couple of years and it was so fun! I think we might keep that new tradition! So you ask what did you do Christmas morning? Well we went to the Citadel and went to the Khan! What a perfect day for us it was alot of fun! You know how I love the Khan. Everytime I go I learn something new! Then we came home and cooked Christmas dinner! James and I make a great cooking team, I love that he is right there helping all the way through cooking-even when we are at home he does this! Here is a picture of our Christmas day trips.

















Citadel








Our first Christmas in Egypt was one of the best Christmas' we have had! Long before Christmas I was stressing over if if would be a good Christmas and I got a great peice of advice from a fellow blogger. That advice was do something different and we did. We have always had a live tree and so we bought a Cedar tree that is in the pot from our local plant place. Of course it's not 6 feet tall and it did not have strong branches to hold the heavy ornaments, but we did find a net of Christmas lights that fit perfectly and found small ornaments that did not bend the little branches. It is a beautiful tree and the very very best part was it's a great plant we get to keep enjoying! Once when I was growing up in Texas we had a tree in a pot and I loved that tree! We used to cut down our tree every year and that was alot of fun. So here is a picture of our tree this year.

Saturday, December 27, 2008

Pictures of Italy 5

























Friday, December 26, 2008

Us at the Pyramids

We had the best time at the pyramids! We seen stuff we had not seen before! We rode camels from the high point to the Spinx. I got a bunch of really fun pictures. It was a very long day but it was worth it and we loved it!



Thursday, December 25, 2008

Pictures of Italy 4




















Merry Christmas!!!

It's Christmas here in Egypt! Hooray!


Merry Christmas everyone

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Pictures of Italy 3






























Dust Storm in Maadi

This was yesterday 12/22/2008. It was cold and windy and then about lunch time the dust started blowing.

Today it's just beautiful outside! The sun is shinning.








Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Pictures of Italy 2















Sunday, December 21, 2008

Pictures of Italy (more pictures to come)






















































































































































































































Yes this man can sleep anywhere! This was the easy part of the trip. We had to leave for the airport at 1:30 am. So we get to the airport, at about 4:00 am we get to board the plane, at some point while we are loading the plane the bagagge loader hits the plane so after are brief delay they cancel the flight because the plane is not safe to fly! They unload the plane and tell us they will take us to a hotel and then bring us back for a 4:30 pm flight! By chance while we were walking through the airport we ran into our expeditor who was quite shocked to see us after getting us loaded on our first flight! When we explained what we knew bless his heart he went into damage control and first he had us load the bus to go to a hotel then while we were waiting there for them to put luggage on the bus another man step on aked for the Noles family and said we had tickets on another airline. I think I am glad I don't understand too much arabic because there were alot of unhappy people on that bus. Our expeditor had gone to another airline and gotten us a voucher from the first airline for a flight that was suppose to leave at 11:30 am. Remember we have been at the airport since 2:00am. So we start trying to call Christopher who is flying into Rome 20 minutes after our original flight! Guess what my prepaid phone ran out of minutes, James' cell phone doesnt work once you leave Egypt so we did'nt even bring it, so at the last minute before leaving for the airport I grab our cell phone from home(USA). So guess which phone we end up using to get a hold of Chris! I have no idea how much thats gonna cost! I am still being positive because I get to see my son I have not seen in 6 months so at this point thats all thats keeping me from just freaking out! That was until our next flight was delayed until 1:30 pm we still don't know why. I have a new respect for anyone who has to deal with airlines and airports on a regular basis! I have never had this kind of trouble before and it was not fun. Honestly it had to have been the grace of God that kept me sane. I have never been that patient in my life for anything. I just knew Chris was alright and we would get there. Was not very happy with Marriott hotel we called them and asked if we could have a shuttle pick Chris up and of course pay for it and they would not do that! To make a very long story short we made it about 4:45 pm. I do have to say I have never been on a flight where they start moving the plane before everyone is seated. one extreme to the other!

















We made it safe and sound and the flight was good, Christopher was good and we were eating at the Hard Rock Cafe by 7:00 pm! How cool is that!





















Saturday, December 20, 2008

Back from Italy

We are back from Italy! We had a great trip very eventful to say the least that ended with me getting sick. I am still not 100% but getting better everyday.

Italy was great. Was cold (cause it's winter) and rainy. The churches are beautiful and the foutains are amazing lots and lots of pictures to come when I am feeling up to it and the internet is fixed!

Our phone hasn't been working either something about the cable that runs throught the sea getting cut again.....seems to happen quite often.

For those asking about the stockings here is the information:

El Maadi House
29 Moustsfa Kamel Street
Borg El Tawfeek in front of Metro Market Maadi
Tel 3595200
Mob 0128149639


More to come in a couple of days!

Monday, December 8, 2008

Be back soon!

It's almost time for us to go to Italy. We will bring back lots of pictures to share. Talk to you soon.

Sunday, December 7, 2008

Christmas stockings!

I love our new stockings! We came across this shop while looking for something different. When we hang them I will take another picture. We also got a tree skirt and a table runner. Did you notice our names in arabic at the bottom! How cool is that!


Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Zoo pictures

James was talking to Aunt Margie last night and was telling her about the zoo. I realized that I had not posted them but saved them as a draft. They are added now but you have to look back a older post because it posted them with the day I did the draft.

I was going to write about my feeling on the zoo but decided to leave it with just some comments. The only zoo's we have been to have been in the states so I keep comparing every experience to the same experience from the states. If you are coming to Egypt to live or to work long or short term come with an open mind. It's nothing like living in the states and maybe that's why we love it. It is completely different and hard to get that across without pictures.

There are signs of Christmas everywhere. Christmas trees and decorations everywhere. Last night James and I found a new shop that customizes stockings with names written in English on the top and Arabic on the "toe" of the stocking. I can't wait to get them and take a picture. Tree skirts, table runners, place mats, napkins, and bed sets all handmade!

I still have not gotten my screen to match my mirror but it should be soon. When I get it I will post a picture of it. James found some footstools that he needed and they are different than just a plain footstool.

Kief's computer that we ordered in Sept has never made it! We have had Chris, the post office at home and the Embassy here in Cairo looking for it. So now we have to file an insurance claim and you guessed it order another laptop!!! The mouse that was shipped arrived about 10 days after it was mailed from home go figure! It's okay if that's the worst that happens to us in our life we are good! Plus it was insured!!!!

James will be off most of the month because of the feast that's coming up and our trip to Italy. I love this place!!!!