Thanksgiving to-do’s

  1. Plan one thing (not 6 things, not “a few” things) to accomplish, academically, for each day of the break.
  2. Get some sleep.
  3. Ask yourself: what was the best thing about this quarter?
  4. Then ask yourself: how can I make sure I get more of that?
  5. Start a gratitude journal and make one entry
  6. Breathe out negativity. Breathe in gratitude and love.
  7. Reflect.
  8. Take a moment away from the Stanford grind to remember the bigger picture.
  9. Catch up with friends and family.
  10. Figure out how, in some little way, to help someone who needs help.
  11. Figure out what’s going to be due/when your exams are in week 9/10/finals week, post a calendar on your wall for checkingat a glance.
  12. Read a book for fun.
  13. Wash your hands. The last few weeks of the quarter are a terrible time to get sick.
  14. Do a secret good deed for someone.
  15. Write a letter to yourself to be opened in ten years.
  16. Enjoy your break.
Happy-Thanksgiving

What is “productive”?

nose to grindstoneWhen your nose is to the grindstone and you’re cranking out problems sets, reading responses, job applications, take-home midterms all while trying to book your flights for winter break, it’s hard to think of productivity as anything that isn’t moving you towards the finish line. Every action will seem to be one of two things: productive or not, helping you towards your goal or slowing your pace. But what may not be obvious at first, yet revelatory upon later experience, is that widening your definition of “productive” to include seemingly “unproductive” experiences can actually make you more productive.

Consider some things that most students consider unproductive:

  • daydreaming
  • sleeping
  • small talk with friends

Now, consider…

The case for daydreaming

Without going into an entire neurobiology lesson, here’s the takeaway:

“By scanning the brains of study subjects asked simply to rest and relax, scientists have discovered that our minds are anything but inactive in these moments. Relieved of the obligation to pay attention to what’s going on around us, we engage instead with a rich internal environment: recalling the past, imagining the future, replaying recent interactions and sorting out our feelings.” (from Annie Murphy Paul’s The Brilliant Report)

The case for sleep (Harvard says so!)

  • Research suggests that sleep plays an important role in memory, both before and after learning a new task
  • Lack of adequate sleep affects mood, motivation, judgment, and our perception of events
  • Although there are some open questions about the specific role of sleep in forming and storing memories, the general consensus is that consolidated sleep throughout a whole night is optimal for learning and memory

The case for talking with friends

Really? Do I need to make a case for this? Fine. You know the value of talking with friends, but I’m going to make a plug for talking honestly with them. That is, sharing your woes and frustrations, and asking about theirs. Bring those little duck feet to the surface and tell someone how hard you’re working and how hopeful you are you’ll finally get your head around a hard concept. Or just hang with someone and telecast your knowledge that being a student is hard and that you care and understand.

The fact is that you need perspective and aim when guiding your productivity. Incorporating seemingly unproductive tasks into your daily routine will help to make sure that you not only cross the finish line, but that you cross the right finish line.

 

The Four Faces of Test Anxiety

cat freaking outThere are 4 kinds of test anxiety:

  1. Wayyyyy before the test
    This is also known as free-flowing anxiety, wherein just the thought of a test – even one that’s not going to happen except in your nightmares – makes your palms clammy and bends your belly into knots.
  2. Before the test
    This anxiety happens anywhere from several months to moments prior to an actual test on your calendar.
  3. During the test
    This happens, as you’d expect, while you’re sitting down with the test, trying to concentrate and work a problem, even when you get up to take a bathroom break.
  4. After the test
    Post-test anxiety, not to be underestimated, is what causes most students to abandon their exams in the professor’s distribution box outside their office to collect dust. Just give me the damn grade and don’t make me re-visit the pain.

So, what to do about each of these different types of test anxiety.

Wayyyyy before: Anxiety has the potential to motivate good preparation, so use it that way. Good preparation can mitigate much of the irrational before-the-test anxiety you usually face. Good preparation consists of learning deeply. Learning deeply should make you able to answer these questions about what you’ve learned:

  1. What does it mean?
  2. How does it work
  3. Why is it important?
  4. How does it fit with the other things I’m learning

It also helps to have your study and preparation look similar. If the test is closed book, practice p-sets without your notes. If the test is essay-writing, practice writing. 

NOTE: It turns out testing is a great way to learn. When separated from its evaluative purpose, it’s actually more helpful to test yourself intermittently than to just study or go over problem sets. Part of this constitutes a sort of rehearsal, but at its core testing is a strenuous mental activity that helps solidify the information you’re learning. It also helps you screen through what you know well, what you know a little, and what you don’t know at all yet. (For more information about test preparation, read this.)

Stress can be attenuated in two waves: Before and During. Ideally, if Before is working well, During will go even better. But, as a fail-safe, I’ll talk about some strategies to help ease stress During the test as well as Before.

Before: Working with the material + Behaviorally preparing for the test
Before & During: Physiologically preparing for the test
Before & During: Psychologically preparing for the test

Working with the material

  1. If the test was on reporting your life story from the very beginning leaving nothing out, you would ace it. Not because you’re memorized your life story, but because you know it; you’ve told it before, and it’s meaningful to you. These are the two ingredients for managing test anxiety in the context of actually learning and working with the course material prior to the exam.
  2. Most people tend to see study as absorption and testing as production as if learningwringing out sponge is being a dry sponge soaking up the material, and being tested on it is squeezing out the sponge to show what you absorbed. But since Stanford tests don’t tend to ask you to squeeze out what you’ve absorbed (they want you to USE it in some new and complicated way), your study needs to look much more like testing than the traditional spongy absorption.

Behavioral Preparation

When you’re preparing, select a problem or question that gets you thinking the way you’re going to need to be thinking during the exam. This can be your warm-up question. About 20-30 minutes before the exam, pull out that question and answer it. It shouldn’t be super challenging, or something that you don’t feel confident about. Then, when you sit for the exam, all the parts of your brain that need to be lit up are already lit up!

Physiological Preparation

breatheA certain amount of anxiety is necessary for testing. It keeps you vigilant and focused. Too much distracts you and makes you move so fast you miss tiny but significant details like “but” or “and” while writing or carrying the 1. So getting the right amount of anxiety means formally telling your body that a test is not a life or death situation, and all of that adrenaline you’ve got coursing through your veins, producing your elevated heart rate, generating enough heat that your palms are sweating, and mixing with your stomach acid to produce what feels like lead butterflies is actually natural, okay, and if managed properly, can help you. First, breeeeeeeathe. Slowly in, and slowly out. This will get more oxygen to your brain where it is needed (since you are not in fact running for your life), will slow your heart rate, and will help you dissipate some of your adrenaline.

Psychological Preparation

This type of prep can take a long long time to master, so don’t be discouraged if just reading this doesn’t immediately transform you. Change and growth take time. Here are some things to try and to aim for.

  • Remember that this exam is not a measure of your intellect, nor is it a definition of you. It’s a snapshot of you, this day, having logged this much sleep, having had this much time to prepare, with this particular level of motivation, etc. And it’s a blurry snapshot at best. And even if you had a thousand crystal clear snapshots, the whole collection wouldn’t define you.
  • If you have some intrinsic interest in what you’re being tested on, remember that using your mind to solve problems and puzzles is actually pretty fun. That’s all a test is: a puzzle.
  • Getting less than an A+ does not constitute falling off a ledge. Lives will not be lost. While yucky things might happen (everything from your own disappointment to, in much more severe situations, having to re-take a course or take time off of school), this test will not kill you. It will not make your life either meaningful or meaningless. It will show you what more you have to learn. And isn’t that why you came to Stanford?

As usual, stay calm, and stay tuned.

Whose education is it, anyway?

More than once, a student has told me these words:

“I owe my teacher a paper,” as if the teacher is waiting for you to bring back the groceries after sending you to the store, as if he’s asked you to do something for him, as if you’re now on the hook and things won’t be “right” until you do what he has asked.

But here’s the thing: that paper you “owe” your teacher, it’s not for him. In fact, not to make you feel too tiny and insignificant, but if you never write that paper, it won’t have much of an impact on your teacher (sorry).

Students I talk to are all in a twist because they’re cranking out assignments as if they’re somehow not part of their education, but are rather just some inconvenient requirements they must begrudgingly finish just because. In lock step: Go to class. Do the assignment. Get the grade. Repeat. Do what other people tell me I should do.

Now people, there’s nothing wrong with those checkpoints: DO go to class, DO do flat line heart monitorassignments, and DO get some grades. But when your motivation is flat-lining and your stress is off the charts, take a step back and ask yourself: who I am doing this for? Are these groceries I’m fetching for someone else or are they ultimately for me? Do I get to make a meal out of them?

Is the paper you’re slaving away at (or avoiding completely) going to brighten your teacher’s day, or is the work itself going to benefit your education?

At any point, but especially when you’re feeling stuck or stressed, tired or distracted, if you can’t fully say I Am Writing This Paper For My Own Learning, then we have a few things to discuss.

Thing 1
Writing is thinking, but on paper, and with the chance to craft and massage the words so they’re juuuust right. Think of a paper as a chance for you to thoughtfully talk to your teacher without interruption.

Thing 2
There can be things that are interesting to you in every part of your life. As Malcolm Gladwell describes it, the trick to finding the story is to understand that everything in life is interesting, you just have to be open to the possibilities.

Thing 3
Life’s too damn short to live it for other people. When you’re in your waning 7th decade, it would be nicer to look back across your life span and see that what you did was of value and meaning to you. Who else will care as much about your work?