Student-athlete Sam Wopat dies at 19

The Stanford community mourns the loss of sophomore student-athlete Samantha “Sam” Wopat, who died Sunday, March 25, at Stanford Hospital, surrounded by family, friends and teammates. Wopat, a member of the women’s volleyball team, died after a weeklong battle in the intensive care unit of Stanford Hospital. She was hospitalized Saturday, March 17, following a medical emergency in her campus residence, the University announced Monday.

The Stanford community mourns the loss of sophomore student-athlete Sam Wopat. (Courtesy of Stanford Athletics)

 

“We are deeply saddened by the passing of Sam Wopat,” said Bob Bowlsby, the Jaquish & Kenninger Director of Athletics at Stanford in a University statement. “She was an integral member of the Stanford Athletics family and a tremendous student and athlete. On behalf of our administration, coaches and students I extend my condolences to Sam’s siblings, parents, relatives and friends. Stanford University and the Women’s Volleyball program have lost a wonderful young woman.”

 

Samantha Alohilani Wopat was born on Oct. 13, 1992 in Santa Barbara. She graduated in 2010 from Dos Pueblos High School in Goleta, Calif., where she lettered in volleyball, track and field and basketball. She and her twin sister, Carly, also a member of the Stanford women’s volleyball team,  were both named the 2010 Dos Pueblos High School Top Female Athlete.

 

In an October interview with The Daily, Wopat spoke about majoring in English with an emphasis in creative writing.

 

Wopat joined the Stanford women’s volleyball team in 2010 and excelled as an outside hitter. She appeared in 25 sets as a sophomore and averaged 1.16 kills per set. She saw action in 11 sets as a freshman and registered a .571 season hitting percentage.

 

Wopat’s athletic successes began well before she enrolled at Stanford. She was a member of Junior Olympic teams in 2006, 2007 and 2008. In 2009 she was a member of the U.S. Youth National Team that competed at the World Championships and in 2010 she competed on the 2010 U.S. Women’s Junior National Team. In 2010 she helped the Santa Barbara Volleyball Club win the 2010 Southern California Junior National Qualifier.

 

As a high-school senior, Wopat led her team in kills and aces and helped win the CIF Division 1A Southern California title. In 2009, she was named a PrepVolleyball High School All-American and a Volleyball Magazine Second Team All-American. PrepVolleyball’s Senior Aces rankings listed her as one of the nation’s top volleyball players.

 

Wopat is survived by her parents, Ron and Kathy Wopat of Santa Barbara, Calif.; her twin sister, Carly Wopat ‘14, also a member of the Stanford women’s volleyball team; and two younger brothers, Jackson and Eli.

 

The Daily will update this post with information about memorials for Wopat as it becomes available.

 

  • http://twitter.com/sky232831 Sky

    It’s unfortunate that the family thinks that witholding information will preserve privacy. In reality, it does just the opposite.  

  • http://twitter.com/sky232831 Sky

    Revealing the cause of death will not increase the family’s pain. That’s a fallacy.  It most likely will result in an outpouring of compassion and understanding that will lessen their pain.  Shrouding suicide in a cloak of secrecy hurts everyone.

  • guest

    To extrapolate: parents, while encouraging your children to study hard, pursue their dreams, and possibly win a scholarship to a prestigious school, be sure to remind them that this success inadvertently makes them “public” commodities. The objectification implicit in the “we have a right to know” attitudes makes my skin crawl.

    I know the extrapolation isn’t a perfect parallel to this situation, but come on– we’re talking about a kid. One who was barely old enough to vote and not yet old enough to walk into a bar. If a professional actor, athlete, or politician were part of a high-profile story, I might buy the notion that the “public has a right to now,” but only because such people are a) inordinately rewarded for their public appeal; b) potentially relevant (albeit only occasionally) to our day-to-day lives (as opposed to our morbid fascinations). Neither of those conditions is applicable here.

    In the case of an amateur athlete, I don’t think the “right to know” argument passes muster. Kobe Bryant and Lisa Leslie are public figures. There public stature was built by the public’s affection and willingness to spend. But there’s a difference between being famous and being a public figure over whom the public can reasonably feel entitled. 

    And I’m not even saying that the entitlement we bring to celebrities is right– but I can at least conjure an ethical justification for it. You’ve got to have pretty loose standards to make the conclusions some are advocating– to wit: “The person is more famous than most people; therefore, I will arbitrarily conflate this fame with the concept of a ‘public figures'; therefore, I have a right to know what is typically reported about public figures, and I have a right to know it as soon as I want to know it.”

  • http://twitter.com/sky232831 Sky

    They’re not insensitive. They are just pointing out one of the most common causes of death in healthy college students. 

  • guest

    “Condition” and “other serious and unaddressed mental health issues are present (in addition to depression)” probably refer to Sam’s bulimia. I am sorry you lost your friend, but it was hard not to notice her eating disorder even as an acquaintance and wonder if she needed help.

    http://archive.stanforddaily.com/?p=2765 One obviously regrets being a bystander.

  • Tyrone31

    What did your daughter tell you?  What was the cause of Samantha’s death?

  • Eddie190

    Too many people behind the scenes already know what happened.  One of them (other volleyball players, coaches, etc.) will talk.

  • Calman07

    I  believe we have no right “to know.” I think many Volleyball Mom’s/Dad’s look at these posts to  have an insight…so maybe this does not happen to our daughter.
    We spend many many hours in  gyms. Hoping our daughter might go further than high school.  Stanford is the ultimate goal. So we think everything is ok?
    Sam achieved much in her short time. 
    Much love to her family

  • Professor Pat

    My thought exactly…elite athletes have comprehensive health coverage.

  • Parent of Stanford athlete

    That isn’t true.  Health insurance isn’t part of an athlete’s scholarship package.  My kid is an athletic scholar in Stanford and my husband and I have to pay for it.  When our kid got sick we were the ones that paid our share.

  • BobHanson

    “Blame” isn’t my word, I was simply responding to the thread. Healthy 19yos don’t simply die of natural causes very often. It is a fact. Don’t shoot the messenger JHawkins!

    We as humans, contrary to a lot of opinions here, aren’t looking to blame, we’re looking to explain, to ask “why?!!”

    I know you have personal stories, as do I, and the hardest part is not knowing why.

  • Mom

    @Tyrone 31 not for me to say that’s up to her family. I watched her grow up to be a lovely young woman my heart is aching. RIP Sam

  • guest

    It’s my understanding that newspapers typically don’t report on suicides unless they happen in a public place (such as the train tracks) and I’m not saying that’s what happened in this case. When Jim Plunkett’s son died a few years ago there was never any mention of the cause of death.  The media is not covering anything up. They’re following their professional code. I know it’s hard for some people to believe but the media can be honorable and respectful. Now if only others could learn to do the same.

  • Newshound

    Thank you for posting actual facts about it. From your level of details and other comments, I believe you.

  • Tyrone31

    I am so sorry she felt the need to do that.  I hope this encourages others of a similar age and background to get professional help if they are contemplating such thoughts.

  • Nathan55

    Its a shame that the comments stating what happened to Samantha were removed.   There was nothing graphic about it, just a recounting of the facts of the situation.   I’m glad I saw what was said earlier and hopefully that post will be added back soon.

  • TheGoodlandbaby

    Wouldn’t that make you the bystander? Since you noticed “someone needed help” and you had the expertise to diagnose them with something.  If you are a Stanford student I expect a little more. 

  • TheGoodlandbaby

    I think the curiosity that all these people  have comes from the fact that she is an elite athlete at Standford. If it was a kid from a local CC they would not care. They are just being presumptuous, and assuming that she comes from great wealth. When in reality she is the daughter of two school teachers with younger children. 

  • Newshound

    Stanford daily – stop removing factual comments. It is bad enough you can’t even muster the strength to report the truth about her cause of death. The removed comment from a student said that she hung herself.

  • Professor Pat

    Please tell me you’re not a student at “Standford”….

  • BobHanson

    Hmm, Kcq100, I didn’t even know the cause of death actually! I was simply talking about suicide, and fully agree with Sky’s response on the issue. The whole “time and place for everything” response is getting tired. The time and place is NOW, when people are actually talking about it. Who’s going to listen 3 months from now?
    A suicide is tragic, but a suicide of someone in school is particularly tragic because they’re life is so different from what it could be just a year or two down the line. It may seem like a year or two is a long time, but as we get older we realize it is nothing. I want to tell them “Please seek help and give life a chance, no matter how difficult things feel right now”

  • BobHanson

    This issue is reaching far beyond the confines of this particular University. I don’t have a horse in this race, but I know the public’s interest fades quickly. An article evaluating health resources isn’t exactly a top trending news story, and anyone who comes to that discussion later on will have already been involved with the issue is some form or other.
    I haven’t read the comments that have been deleted obviously, but I’d say most people here are respectful and in no way further harming the family or those close to Samantha. I would actually feel better by writing and responding on boards such as these, to help sort through emotions and complicated thoughts.

  • BobHanson

     I agree, but i have to stress that those issues may have had nothing at all to do with the particulars of this case.
    By the way, it is a myth that such things can be blamed on one event, circumstance, or issue. It is usually complex, and usually never known really what happened. It is the ultimate tragedy.

  • BobHanson

     I feel your own knowledge of the family and the situation has clouded your ability to see the true tone of these posts. I don’t feel anyone is being insensitive or pushy. Some are getting intellectual, but reading and talking and knowing is starting on the road to recovery in my opinion. Recovery is obviously the wrong word, but you get the idea.

  • BobHanson

    When you’re talking about someone, who from the outside appears to be the perfect volleyball daughter, whose story ends like this, it isn’t a matter of “right to know,” its an internal need, a desire for answers, a scare that someone we know might be on such a road.
    This happens everywhere, this isn’t a local Stanford story. We all have loved ones, friends.. , therefore we want to know. We don’t need to what happened, we want to know WHY it happened.
    The sad truth is that probably nobody knows!

  • guest

     Anybody know where the link is? http://www.bystander.stanford.edu or a search didn’t lead me to it.

  • Joneskoko

    Has there been any announcement of the funeral date?

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=745211302 Jmark Ma

    I think it’s fantastic to know Samantha’s teammates and all of those that are associated with the team have supported the Wopat families privacy’. 
    Our family has been through something like this and it does not have to do with keeping it a secret.  The pain, the guilt, and all of the other emotions that are associated with this type of thing are unbearable.  It makes you feel hopeless and lost.  Most people we knew seemed more curious about what happened, and didn’t seem half as interested in supporting us.  It made it hurt even more.  We just didn’t want to talk to anyone.  Our family member was a pretty big business person and there was so much to deal with.  In time we let people know what happened, but we needed a week or two to process everything.  It was hard to read on the internet the nasty comments people had on how we handled it, when they didn’t know us or know what happened.  I spoke for our family and one reporter asked how is my family doing and how are they feeling.  My answer was how would you feel?  Devastated.  

    So many mean spirited, cynical comments from those that haven’t gone through something like this, or who don’t know the Wopats’.  For God’s sake, lighten up and stop judging them, and pray you never have to go through something like this.   And while your at it pray for them.  I literally ache for this family and I can’t stop thinking about Samantha and Carly and the entire volleyball team and family.  You really never get over it. And then what’s worse, your loved one dies, and you get this monstrous bill from the hospital in the 6 figures.   This is torture and is the worst thing that can happen to a parent.  Everything will come out in due time.  The Wopat’s are just good people like yourselves and kindness and patience are what they need.  

    And remember that there are a lot of people out there hurting.  Be kind to all people and never look down on anyone.  You never know who is really having a rough time in life.  

  • TheGoodlandbaby

    No sweetie I am not. But, neither are you. Obviously! Read my note above directed at you!

  • Cardinal14

    Uh, I think this because of the huge bill my own parents received. You’re naive if you think Stanford student health insurance will even begin to cover all the expenses incurred for Sam’s treatment. Yes, of course it does help, but they will still have a substantial bill to pay. Do you have any idea how much eight nights in intensive care would cost? 

  • Cardinal14

    How can you be a professor and be so bewilderingly out of touch about the realities of health care coverage in America? No matter how comprehensive Sam’s insurance is it is unlikely to fully cover a lengthy stay in intensive care for treatment unrelated to a sports injury. I have student health insurance in addition to coverage from my parents’ policy, and our bills were still substantial when I got very sick while at school last year. 

    I’m relieved people recognize the realities of the financial situation her family is likely to be facing and are willing to lend support. Her family isn’t affluent, and they have two minors to support in addition to Carly. 

  • Professor Pat

    Shrouding the cause of death in a veil of secrecy only fuels reckless  rumor-mongering and  shameful speculation.  Well meaning though it is, the decision to not reveal any details only diminishes the legacy of this wonderful young woman.  

  • Brian

    Please let them grieve in peace. You all have an idea of what happened. A young girl is no longer alive and her family are crushed. I am sure in time they will deal with her death with strength and become ambassadors to her cause of death. All it shows when you demand to know details is that your a gossip and weak. Back off and let them bury Sam.

  • Xavier166

    People are just asking for a simple statement by the media on how Samantha died.   The family doesn’t have to say anything about it.  The media publishes these things all the time without the deceased families permission.    Just give us the facts, it is the right and moral thing to do.

  • Mamezco

    Wednesday, April 18, 2012 at 1:30 PM, Memorial Church, Stanford University.

  • Grad

    Did Sam have an eating disorder? Was her family & coaches aware of it?

  • Parent of Stanford athlete

    I agree with Cardinal14. I cannot begin to imagine how much their bill amounted to with 8 nights in the ICU!

  • guest

    Details are out now. Now all of you people who think you are entitled to know anything can shut the hell up and let the family mourn their daughter!

  • stan4d92

    What you can do for your child in possibly preventing such a tragedy has nothing to do with what specific information you can glean from the case of Sam Wopat death.  You can simply understand that depression among these young people exists.  Be involved.  Talk to your kid.  Explore and  use your resources.  This is not a nre phenomenon, so we should not act as though it is each time it happens.

  • stan4d92

    Yes, you are the only one who finds this odd.

  • stan4d92

    A trite reply to a very complicated issue.  If she was, in fact, suffering from depression, telling her to “turn that frown upside down” would not likely do the trick.  As someone who suffers from depression, I would venture to say that such a sentiment would make matters worse.

  • Molly

    heartbreaking on so many levels

  • A Teacher

     I agree – let’s celebrate Sam’s life.  She was a remarkable gifted poet.  I hope the family will decide to publish some of her work.

  • A Teacher

     Please don’t assume that people were “failing” – does a disservice to Sam as well as the people who were providing help and support to her.

  • A Teacher

    Sam was a very very thoughtful person.  I suspect that her parents are being very thoughtful right now as how to best handle this.

  • lydiaolydia

    This is

  • Franciegillis

    Sam’s death is a horrible, extremely sad thing. Some wonder whether or not Sam might have been pulled from school for treatment were she not such an elite athlete…We can never know, and never know if it would have made a difference, but it’s something to consider for parents & coaches of elite athletes.

  • guest

    None of you are entitled to Sam Wopat’s private medical history. And no one who has it has ANY responsibility or authority to share it. Have some compassion, stop gossiping about her and her family. Go out and do something nice for someone.

  • guest

    If a concerned parent or student wants to know ”
    what the university, the athletics dept, the health center, etc. have in place to prevent something like this.” they should ask the UNIVERSITY, not The Daily. When someone takes their own life, horrible feelings of guilt are left in it’s wake. The most awful realization is that many suicides are not preventable.

  • guest

    We only have to look at the shameful lack of access to quality, affordable mental health care to be able to answer the question.