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The Start of the Something New: Get Involved

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Class of 2019 and Transfer students, congratulations for successfully THRIVING (not surviving) at your NSO!

Now it’s week 1, and whether you are a new or returning student, the 2015-2016 school year is new to all of us. This really is the start of something new. It is a start to a new beginning, a new experience, and a new opportunity to experiment, take risks, mess up, and learn!

Get involved

As a recent Stanford grad (’15), one of my tips for this first week of fall quarter is to get out there and get involved, and I’m not just talking about activities. According to Astin’s theory of student involvement, student learning and personal development are directly proportional to the quality and quantity of student involvement, emphasis on QUALITY (though I de-emphasize quantity since most people around here take on way too much).

Quality over quantity

The quality of opportunities available to you are pretty sweet, but make sure that your effort to learn and get involved is also quality. That means, don’t just sign up for 1000 different mailing lists for student clubs or just show up at your classes. Consider the quality of your involvement.

  • Show up early to class and get to know the your fellow classmates and your instructor. Don’t just show up. Introduce yourself to people and talk. You might be a little afraid, but people are pretty friendly.

  • Talk to someone who hands you a flier or when you pass by an informational booth. Get to know what it is you are trying to be recruited for, and ask questions. Who knows? One opportunity could introduce you to an unknown passion or lead you into some other surprisingly wonderful opportunity.

For most students, quantity of getting involved isn’t a problem. You will quickly discover that the quarter zooms by quickly, and managing your time will be a challenge. At the same time, hiding in your room ONLY doing work is not great either. You were admitted here because Stanford believes you can make a difference not just in your own life, but in the life of others. It won’t happen in a day, but opportunities are everywhere if your eyes are open.

Enough talk. Go out there and get involved.

Fun events I recommend attending this week:

  • O Show on Monday, September 21, 2015 at 8pm in Memorial Auditorium: Check out Stanford’s 9 a cappella groups! You can find me there too :)
  • Activities Fair on Friday, September 25, 2015 at 12-4pm in White Plaza: It’s epic. Just go.

Ready, Set, Go for NSO!

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It’s almost time…

In less than 48 hours, our campus will welcome you, the Stanford Class of ’19 and transfer students. Our advice: get some sleep, stay hydrated, and enjoy your last few days at home. Get ready for your parents to cry. Get ready to cry yourself. Going to college is a big deal

.Welcome Stanford

You will be inundated with new faces, places, names, info, resources, and some of you will drink it in. Others will kind of sputter at the sheer intensity of it all. However you react, there are at least 50 other people having the same reaction. Your job during NSO is to keep your ears and eyes open, meet people, and begin to connect with all things Stanford.

A note about placement tests

If you plan on taking any placement exams, please keep one thing in mind. You’ve been accepted, and nothing that happens as a result of your placement exams will change that. So breathe, focus, and try and enjoy the new challenges.

Resources

As you shift from pre-student to actual student, here are some handouts you might find, well, handy.

Want more great study tips? Come to the Active Learning Strategies Workshops during NSO at 2:15 and 4:15.

Welcome to Stanford!
We can’t wait to see you in two short days.

Showing Yourself: A Welcome to Stanford

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For the last 17+ years you have been showing the world your best self. Your A+ transcripts are only the beginning of the list. Shall we discuss your leadership on the field, in the classroom, onstage, or in your community? That would just be overkill.We have seen the intelligent and infallible you since you were born. We all know your vocabulary as a child consisted of 6 syllable scientific terms. And yes, you did know Atomic Numbers by the time you were 2.
You’ve shown your family, friends, classmates, teammates, teachers, advisors, counsellors, mentors, competitors, and frenemies your best self. Heck, the entire Stanford Office of Admissions has seen your best self too. The world has been privy to a particular kind of you for a very long time.

When you get tot Stanford, take the opportunity to breathe and be YOU. Instead of always showing up with your best self, show us your true self. Friendships will be easier to make and confidence better to find. The performances are only there when you encourage their existence. There doesn’t have to be a show. You, in your truest form, is enough to keep us captivated.

So this year:

  • Try different things because you want to, not because you feel the need to impress or answer to anyone.
  • Open yourself up to be vulnerable with others; share yourself and your story with people around you.
  • Be unafraid of expressing your opinion, instead of simply admiring the other person who does.
  • Embrace all of you (and yes, that includes your imperfections too).

Have a wonderful year, being yourself.

SLEEP NOW and forever be grateful

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As I write, my 17-year-old rising senior is napping on the couch. It’s 1:00pm, and I have mixed feelings about this. On the one hand, the very depths of maternal instinct are satisfied by seeing my boy peacefully curled up with a cat and a blankie. On the other hand, does this mean he’ll be up until 4am and sleep through tomorrow? And what about working on those college applications? Should he be giving up the nap to get the work done?

This is the question you will face (have already faced, my beloved rising college frosh and transfer students) each day you live the life of a student. How will you answer?

Not that you asked, but here’s my advice. Sleep. Sleep a lot. Sleep more than you have as a high school student. Sleep to keep your brain nimble and healthy. Sleep to keep your fearless body healthy. Sleep to be a good student. Sleep to be a good friend. SLEEP.

But Adina, WHY ARE YOU YELLING at us?

Because on a scale of Whatever to Important, sleep is right up there at SUPER important. And because on a scale of What’s Not In My Control to What’s In My Control, sleep is right up there as one of the very things you get to exercise your control over. If time is the one thing in life that ticks on relentlessly, we think we can have more of it by foregoing sleep. Sure, but at a cost. Just ask this guy.

Sleep itself isn’t that memorable (though falling asleep sure is delicious) but without it, all hell breaks loose.

DON’T LET ALL HELL BREAK LOOSE!

Three hours of tired studying is not as effective as one hour of well-rested studying.

Which is why…

It’s 3pm, and my son is still sleeping. I’m just going to call it good and feel safe in the knowledge that all sleep, whenever the body demands it, is a good thing. And without a true summer schedule, then why not!

Sleep it up, folks, for September brings classes, and with classes, come demands. And you might start to feel a little constrained. Which might make you want to exercise your control. Which might make you decide to sleep less. I encourage you to notice how good sleep is, and cling to that memory when you have a choice between all-nighter studying or sleeping.