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The intersectional slut(walk)

About a month ago, I was asked by email to participate in a student panel for Stanford SlutWalk 2016.

“SlutWalk,” I thought. “Oh no.”

SlutWalk originated as a street march and rally at Toronto, 2011, when a policeman argued that to avoid sexual assault, women should “not dress like sluts.” The 3000-participant protest inspired similar events in other cities, and soon other SlutWalks were organized across the United States. Though not centrally coordinated, these events collectively sought to call attention to rape culture – the minimizing and justifying of sexual assault, the normalizing of sexual and intimate violence, and the denial of justice to victims – in our society.

Yet many articles and critical pieces on the SlutWalk movement reveal a number of its shortcomings: the participants and organizers of many SlutWalks tend to be overwhelmingly white. The choice to reclaim “slut” as a universal rallying cry for women hurt by sexual assault often does not represent the differing marginalization of women of color. The desired outcome of many SlutWalks’ brand of activism –  incarceration and other forms of punitive, retributive justice –  has troubling implications for those involved in prison-abolition, anti-state-violence, and other radical activist work. These complaints have led to the common perception in activist spaces that SlutWalk is yet another example of White Feminism, a white-centric feminism that often claims to represent all women and falls short in critiquing larger societal structures.

However, the email in my inbox went on to explain that Stanford’s SlutWalk would center on women of color –  that this SlutWalk would be focused on intersectionality, inclusivity and sexual assault. I looked at the email, wanted to give it a chance, and decided not to.

I didn’t believe that Stanford’s SlutWalk could live up to its promise of intersectionality.

SlutWalks, at their heart, address the issue of sexual assault – that, at least, is clear. To understand SlutWalks, then, we must critically understand sexual assault as an issue that is complex in its origins, complicated in its manifestations, and nuanced in its potential solutions.

Our understandings of sexual assault itself are influenced by our relationship in society to patriarchy, society’s systemic and cultural ideas of men’s and masculine superiority. Patriarchy teaches a skewed idea of intimacy where power and responsibility lies with masculinity and men, with the penetrating body, with the person on top. Is it surprising, then, that men, masculine people, people with penises and sexual tops are told that they cannot be raped by women, femmes, people with vaginas or sexual bottoms? These ideas about power create prototypical ideas in our collective consciousness of who can be a rape victim and who can be a rapist. Is it surprising, then, that men who are raped aren’t taken seriously and struggle with trauma alone? At the same time, patriarchy teaches men and masculine people that women and femmes are weaker, and normalizes a masculine entitlement to sex and physical intimacy. Given that, is it surprising that the very real threat of violence or retaliation from rejecting men and masculine people undermines the integrity of our consent?

Throw in racism and white supremacy, those systems that empower and advantage white and light-skinned folks at the expense of Black, brown and Indigenous peoples, and the issues become even more complicated. For example, while 68 percent of all sexual assaults go unreported, that number jumps to 94 percent for Black women – perhaps due to myths of Black women’s physical invulnerability and the devaluing of intersections of Black and femme lives. At least 70 percent of sexual assault experienced by Native American women is perpetrated by a person of a different race – perhaps due to loopholes in prosecuting laws, lack of respect towards Indigenous lives, or other echoes of U.S. imperialism and genocide.

How about queerness and gender-nonconformity? Systemic transmisogyny forces trans woman and femmes of color into sex work, where they are in constant danger of violence or death. Sexual assault and violence within queer communities often goes unreported, with increasing experiences of marginalization creating increasingly complex experiences of sexual assault, and increasingly gaping failures of our society to remedy them.

This is the real complexity of that word we all use now, intersectionality. To clarify, this is about more than just Stanford SlutWalk — this is our responsibility as a community to hold each other accountable in our activism. Intersectionality is not simply taking an inadequate framework and injecting (or “including”) marginalized voices or experiences. It is a larger analysis of not only identities, but also structures and institutions, a critical commitment to find, dismantle and remake those aspects of our societies that create inequity and violence. In the case of SlutWalk, we must understand that sexual assault is a product of our society — a result of overlapping systems of oppression whose nuance demands an equally nuanced approach to finding solutions. This is what any action claiming intersectionality must hold itself to. This is what it takes to make change.

Contact Lily Zheng at lilyz8 ‘at’ stanford.edu.

 

About Lily Zheng

Lily Zheng '17, is a weekly columnist for The Stanford Daily, a Social Psychology major and co-president of the student group Kardinal Kink. Her weekly column revolves around consent culture, queer and trans identity, social justice and activism. In her spare time, she enjoys wearing too much black clothing, accidentally sleeping in her makeup and spending quality time with her partners. Contact her at lilyz8 'at' stanford.edu – she loves messages!
  • Dr. Street

    Wow. That’s quite a bit to ponder.

  • skullbreathe

    Slut walks? I see hard earned money for Stanford tuition is being well spent these days..

  • Someone who actually went

    Hey Lily! Thank you for your column, as always super on point. Your analysis of the nuances and the systemic nature of sexual violence is something i hadn’t really strated engaging with… until I went to SlutWalk.

    I must say that I feel like your criticism is a bit misplaced. The panelists (all poc, many of them survivors) on the day of the event brought up many of these concerns and more. One of them said something like “the personal is political” and talked about how sexual violence is a systemic issue and tool of opression. They discussed policing, prisons and punitive justice, the criminalization of sex work, and how all those things contribute to sexual violence and disproportionately impact low income women, women of color and trans women. They explicitly acknowledged the racism present in previous slut walks and talked at length about what it means to center the voices of poc survivors and communities most affected by sexual violence. Really, they talked about a lot of the stuff you’re writing about here, so I don’t get all the backlash.

    You said “I didn’t believe that Stanford’s SlutWalk could live up to its promise of intersectionality.” I felt like it did. Perhaps calling it a SlutWalk was the only misstep i can see why you disagree with given the racist history of SlutWalks. But even that they acknowledged. The event itself, though, was simply a modest attempt at direct action followed by an amazing discussion. and I wish you’d showed up to judge for yourself before writing this. Or even better, if you’d participated in the panel and made it even better.

    That said, thank you for column and for the work you do on the daily and in your activism! You’re awesome!

  • Lily Zheng

    Heyhey, I just wanna reach out and say thanks for the comment and for your honesty.

    I messed up! I really did. A few things behind the scenes happened and I wrote off this event as being shitty for a number of reasons I don’t list here. From comments like these I’m definitely getting the impression that the event was much better than I give it credit for here, and that’s really quite amazing that many of the things I mention in this column were brought up there.

    So I guess to you and other folks who went to the event, I want to apologize for the inaccurate op-ed — I’ll do better next time! (And actually go. I really should go to these things.)

  • Eli

    As a straight, white male, I have never taken any courses that taught me to be superior to women, the way you describe. No one ever taught me who to be attracted to either. Although feminists blame the media for that. Did I miss some of the quizzes too? And, in the bedroom, I like having women on top, doing all the work. Where are all of these enlightened women who want to be on top? And, of course, if I like to see women dressed like sluts, I am condemmed for it. And if I ever say to a woman, “Hey, you are looking slutty today! Thanks for keeping America beautiful, hot, and sexy!” that will be an immediate law suit. The PC culture became absurd a long time ago.

  • Lily Zheng

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