WSP 287 — The Art and Science of Relationships: Conversations About Connecting, Courage, and Compassion
Spring
Saturday
Date(s)
May 7
1 day
Drop By
Apr 30
Units
0Fees
Format
On-campus course
Limit 50
Open
How would your life be different if your relationships
were more consistently fulfilling and
supportive? Cultivating courage and compassion helps
develop relationships that are rooted in trust, honesty,
joy, gratitude, strength, and vitality. Most of us share this
vision, but the demands and hectic pace of our complex
lives, as well as our own defenses, often distract us. We
define living courageously and compassionately as the
willingness to skillfully express a core value, such as
being authentic, despite experiencing an emotional risk
in the process. Life affords us many such opportunities.
For example, when we are hurt or angered by the
words or actions of a friend or lover, how can we skillfully
express ourselves to the other?
In this course, we will explore the skills and tools that support having potentially challenging conversations, and skillfully expressing courage with compassion and effectiveness—all for the purpose of creating relationships that truly work. Drawing from the fields of positive, existential, and evolutionary psychology, we will understand and appreciate the vital keys to thriving relationships. The course will include a combination of lectures, class participation, and small-group exercises. We will focus on personal relationships; however, the principles and practices equally apply to collegial relationships. The course is designed for those with either a personal or professional interest in relationships.
In this course, we will explore the skills and tools that support having potentially challenging conversations, and skillfully expressing courage with compassion and effectiveness—all for the purpose of creating relationships that truly work. Drawing from the fields of positive, existential, and evolutionary psychology, we will understand and appreciate the vital keys to thriving relationships. The course will include a combination of lectures, class participation, and small-group exercises. We will focus on personal relationships; however, the principles and practices equally apply to collegial relationships. The course is designed for those with either a personal or professional interest in relationships.
Carole Pertofsky, Director, Stanford Wellness and Health Promotion Student Services
Carole Pertofsky specializes in positive psychology, well-being, and resilience. She co-developed and taught Stanford’s first course on the psychology of happiness and also teaches courses on the art and science of compassion, emotional intelligence, work/life balance, and stress management. She is featured in an award-winning documentary that focuses on women and aging, Let’s Face It: Women Explore Their Aging Faces. She also speaks nationally, leads seminars, consults professionally, and coaches in the fields of life transitions, well-being, and leadership. Pertofsky received an MEd from UC Berkeley.Daniel Ellenberg, Leadership Coach
Daniel Ellenberg is a coach, seminar leader, group facilitator, and counselor. He is a principal in Rewire Leadership Institute and Relationships That Work. He leads Strength with Heart men’s groups and seminars and is a board member of the Wellspring Institute for Neuroscience and Contemplative Wisdom. Ellenberg co-created and delivered a resilience training program for several NASA space centers and is the co-author of Lovers for Life: Creating Lasting Passion, Trust and True Partnership. He received a PhD from the California Institute of Integral Studies.Textbooks for this course:
No required textbooks