Remembering
Frederick Howard Henderson



NAME:             HENDERSON FREDERICK HOWARD
RANK:             CAPT
HOME:             BERKELEY, CALIFORNIA
SEX:              MALE
DATE OF BIRTH:    05/24/38
AGE:              28
MARITAL STATUS:   MARRIED
SERVICE:          ARMY, REGULAR
PAY GRADE:        O3
OCCUPATION (MOS): 1542
DATE OF DEATH:    11/03/66
CASUALTY PLACE:   SOUTH VIETNAM
CASUALTY TYPE:    HOSTILE - KILLED
BODY STATUS:      BODY RECOVERED

Frederick Howard Henderson was born on May 24, 1938 in Fresno, California, to Harriet Severance Henderson (b. Monterey, CA 1912; d. Berkeley, CA 1990) and Frederick Peter Henderson (b. Santa Barbara, CA 1906; d. Berkeley, CA 1989). Fred's parents met in 1929 while both attended the University of California and married in Berkeley in 1934. Fred grew up in Berkeley, attending Thousand Oaks, Garfield Junior High and Berkeley High Schools.

Fred entered the University of California, Berkeley in 1956 after graduating from Berkeley High School. In 1959 Fred received an appointment from Congressman John J. Allen to the U.S. Military Academy at West Point. Fred graduated from West Point in 1963.

After his graduation, in June, 1963, Fred married Jacqueline Arbios, his sweetheart with whom he had fallen in love while at U.C. Fred and Jackie moved to Ft. Benning, GA, where Fred completed Airborne Ranger training. They were transferred to Schofield Barracks in Honolulu, HI where their baby daughter Suzanne was born in 1964. Fred was sent to Viet Nam in January, 1966. He was killed in action in Viet Nam on November 3, 1966.

Fred was survived by his widow, Jackie, his daughter, Suzanne, his mother and father, sisters Katherine and Mary, and nephews John and David.



Excerpts from a letter dated 25 November 1966 to Jackie, Fred's widow,
from Guy S. Meloy, Major, Infantry, C.O. 1/27 Inf.:


Newspaper article from Pacific Stars and Stripes
dated Monday, Nov. 28, 1966:
"Attleboro Battered Reds' Supply System"


Memories and comments about
Frederick Howard Henderson



I was Fred's battalion commander when he was killed, and the same author who wrote the letter (to Fred's widow) listed at the beginning of these many wonderful tributes to Fred. I remained in the Army for a full 30-year career, retiring as a Major General. My last two assignements before leaving the service were Commanding General of the 82nd Airborne Division at Ft Bragg, NC, and Director of Army Training in the Pentagon. In my 30 years of duty I met and worked with, or for, many outstanding leaders, but to this day I have always held Fred as the standard upon which I measure leader traits such as integrity, selflessness,dedication, devotion to duty, loyality,professionalism, and plain old fashioned common sense. There have been several reunions of the 1st Battalion, 27th Infantry (Wolfhounds) since Fred death, and even now he is always spoken of with reverence, admiration and deep respect. He was a good and loyal friend and a superb combat commander. Those of us who knew Fred at that time still miss him. I think of him often. If anyone knows the whereabouts of Jackie, we would appreciate it if you would let her know how much Fred is still thought of by the members of the 1/27th Infantry. Thank you. Sincerely,Guy S. Meloy

Guy S. Meloy
gsmeloy3@cs.com
Georgetown, Texas USA

Even thou I did not know Cpt Henderson, I can relate to what he went through. I too was on Operation Attleboro because I was with the Co "B", 2nd Bn, 14th Infantry. I was also in Hawaii and departed there on 16 April 1966 for Cu Chi. I retired from the Army on 1 July 1985 as an E-7.
To Cpt Henderson and all the boys, "We Will Not Forget"

David C. Springer <springerd@usfk.korea.army.mil>
Camp Carroll,, Korea - Saturday, September 26, 1998 at 00:07:36 (PDT)


What a beautiful tribute.
My father, Bill Norberg, was killed in Vietnam in June 1966.
He left a wife and three children. Our family lived at Schofield
Barracks at about the same time as the Hendersons.
I'll have my brother and sister visit this page as well.

Bob Norberg <norbs@compuserve.com>
- Wednesday, July 01, 1998 at 14:37:39 (PDT)


This is very good place.Great job done.Keep on working this way. Zinka <Zinka@hotbot.com>
Zagreb, CROATIA - Wednesday, April 30, 1997 at 08:48:14 (PDT)


to all the men and women who served and died in vietnam...you deserve a thank you !
Thank you
kennie thompson son of vietnam vet <mandoo@ix.netcom.com>
dighton, ma usa - Saturday, March 29, 1997 at 04:32:58 (PST)


This memorial is a fine tribute to Capt.Henderson and
all the fallen men in Vietnam.
C.Viola USMC 3/3 India Co. 2nd Platoon Vietnam 1969
C.Viola
Bergenfield, NJ Bergen - Wednesday, March 26, 1997 at 09:00:33 (PST)


Fred was my uncle and my son, Freddy, was named after him.
John J. Nelson <JJNelson@primenet.com>
Agoura, Ca usa - Wednesday, December 04, 1996 at 20:10:20 (PST)


I've been to washington D.C. every year for the past 5 years on business. Everytime I go, I make a point of showing those who are with me the Vietnam Memorial with Fred's name on it. It has always been with a great deal of pride that I do this and I will never grow tired of doing it in the future. I was about eight years old when Fred died. So I don't remember much about him except a few small things. I remember that I wrote him a note (just because I felt like it) when I was about 7. I think I told him what I was up to and how proud I was of him. I think I also told him to be careful. I also remember that he sent me a race car set for a present once. For many reasons, he is very special to me.
John J. Nelson <JJNELSON@primenet.com>
Agoura, ca usa - Wednesday, December 04, 1996 at 19:20:43 (PST)


Frederick Jack Nelson (Freddy) is named after his Great-Grandfather, Frederick Peter Henderson, and Great Uncle, Frederick Howard Henderson. Freddy was born November 4, 1986, twenty years and one day after Uncle Fred was killed. Freddy was named after these two men because of their kindness and their courage. We love them and miss them both very much. This web page is a wonderful tribute to a great man. Freddy is very proud of his family name and we believe that Uncle Fred would be proud of his great-nephew.
Frederick Jack Nelson <FredNelson@aol.com>
Agoura, CA USA - Wednesday, December 04, 1996 at 19:08:13 (PST)


I would like to thank the person, (persons) responsible
for putting this together. My son looks just like Fred.
Fredrick Howard Henderson is the grandfather to my
two kids. (Suzanne - his daughter, is my wife and
Jacqueline is my mother-in-law.) Fredrick left behind
two of the most special people in my life. God bless you
Fredrick, and thank you for the gift of your love.
Courage is such a small word ....
Shaun Thurlow Fenn <Sirfenn@ix.netcom.com>
Newport Beach, CA USA - Friday, November 15, 1996 at 17:45:11 (PST)


A tragic but inspiring tribute. Hendersons everywhere hold their heads higher.
D.L. Henderson <HooHender@earthlink.net>
Post Falls, ID USA - Thursday, November 14, 1996 at 10:30:47 (PST)


Mrs. Henderson (Harriet) was my 4th grade teacher at
Hillside school (Berkeley) in 1966. I'll never forget the
day another teacher came to class to tell her she was needed
in the office. It was then she learned of her son's death.
I have often thought of that day, and of Mrs. Henderson and
her son. It was my first introduction to loss and death, and
the only Vietnam death that touched me personally. I hope
now that Mrs. Henderson and her husband are reunited with
their son Fred.
Tom Beatty <TBeatty@BuckConsultants.com>
Oakland, CA USA - Tuesday, November 12, 1996 at 09:18:00 (PST)


my apperication is overwhelming for his man, whom i have never met, yet seeing his picture, feel a loving and self-sacrificing man. thank you Mr. henderson
jessica wright,navy brat <bob..wright@worldnet.att.net>
jax, fl usa - Sunday, November 10, 1996 at 15:07:43 (PST)


Everytime I look at the pictures of the son I always see the father. It was Frederick who as a Berkeley neighbor told me his son had been killed in Vietnam in the War. They had the same name. That was 13 yrs ago. Mother Harriet and father Frederick have passed also. It was their loss started me on the journey that led here.
Country Joe McDonald
Berkeley, CA - Monday, June 03, 1996 at 18:34:40 (PDT)


rest in peace
country joe mcdonald <gimeanf@aol>
berkeley, ca usa - Monday, November 13, 1995 at 21:10:44 (PST)


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