+TheKitsuneCorp Hi. Not sure if you have received any advice since you posted your comment and I don't know if this has already been suggested, but I would suggest your girlfriend and maybe even you look into a form of therapy if she feels comfortable doing that. I don't know much on therapy or sexual abuse, so this maybe the wrong thing to advise, but I think it's a start, plus it might be good to get a professional opinion on this sensitive topic so that you and your girlfriend's way of overcoming this hurdle is easier, more straightforward and safe. Good luck to the both of you. Sincerely a 17 year old with few experiences