I Have Fallen Out of Love with You!!!!

Am sure ur all aware of the ‘ have fallen out of love’ phrase …. it is a very common one used over and over and over again some mean it some use it as an excuse…..(hey don’t worry it aint me am still totally smitten*blush* *blush*)

anyway since I clarified any confusion that could have taken place …. Lets get back tour topic of the PHRASE “I have fallen out of love” my take on this is … the following:

Can a person fall out of love!!!? ...

I personally don’t believe they do … I think they just stop caring/nurturing/loving etc the other half…. Ok ok ok … I know ur all going to say well then isn’t falling out of love the same as stop loving !! In my opinion it isn’t the same….. coz ppl think that once they are in a committed relationship they believe that it will automatically magically grow and love is forever ….. well ding dong wake up smell the coffee ...... NO it isn’t that way at all… it is like gardening… u have to plant the seed in nutritious soil, then put it in the environment that will help it grow and water it ans care for it …. So that it may blossom beautifully stop caring for it and it will wither away and die…. a relationship is the same …

It is upto the person what they want to bring into the relationship darkness or sunlight, water it with water or give the pant poison, protect it or leave it for the insects to feed on it ….

Recently I have heard the statement mentioned and relationships withering away and its always either the person is afraid of commitment (already discussed earlier in April under the topic ‘ Unless commitment is made, there are only promises and hopes... but no plans ’) or we/I have fallen out of love …. Please.. really i mean come on...... and seriously never blame one side (in most cases) it takes 2 to tango….. so my lovelies what do u think?

If we had no winter, the spring would not be so pleasant: if we did not sometimes taste of adversity, prosperity would not be so welcome.
Anne Bradstreet (1612 - 1672)

There are those who are ones’ True Friends and the rest are not bad ppl, but are now just Acquaintances

Ello there lovelies, hope I wasn’t away too long ….. :-) I missed all of you too

For a while now I have been doing something that I have tried to avoid and that is to whine to him about ppl we know or I know …. But the thing is that when something happens it happens in a situation we are both involved in……

An Example of what happened on Wednesday at work…I went and had tea with ‘a friend’ (who we will refer to as A) she doesn’t work with me but we work I the same area and floor anyway … so I got my tea and sat with her and she start complaining about men woman and relationships and sex… so then she started talking about common ppl we know and they relationships…

Me: ‘so how u and all doing are haven’t seen chatted with u in a while’

A: ‘am good, got what I need in life now days and am satisfied, but u know after B broke up with the bf she is just depressing to be with, and is not accepting the fact that he will not come back to her and that is over’

Me: ‘poor thing, what to do love is blind, but she needs support and a reality wake up call’

A: ‘I told her open her eyes and see that, the excuse of his parents not wanting her (after 3 yrs) is lame and a lie and the truth is that he has fallen out of love from her & wont come back … that it’s hopeless for her to wait for him’

Me: ‘not all men lie about such things many men do but not all of then us such lame lies and as for the bf I don’t know him well enough to make such a statement, and ppl don’t just fall out of love’

A: ‘u girls are hopeless (including you- refers to me), ur men/ these men are not serious about u girls and ur just never going to learn that all men as ASSHOLES’

Me: ‘told her she was a bitch and didn’t need to involve my relationship in this conversation’

(As u all know I am with a good man like I said before he makes my eyes twinkle, puts a smile on my face and makes my heart skip a beat…and so much more, so as u may have guessed I am not happy all of this or her … and she is the same person with whom I am upset with coz she has been making stupid statements like that around me about my better half.) now this is icing on the cake about the amount of things she has said….. and not just her many others and the best part is that they are both of our friends (his and mine) and I discuss these issues with him but now it is tiring me out.

For me it is more like how can they call themselves friends when they are doing this and bitching about us …. And waiting for us to break up.

Be courteous to all, but intimate with few, and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence. True friendship is a plant of slow growth, and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity before it is entitled to the appellation

George Washington (1732 - 1799)

I have decided not let the Coffee Brew.....

Well ello lovelies ….. well it is nearly the end of my day at work (which went well) and I have been thinking about my earlier post on the silly action’s of the Ex… and have come to the conclusion that I am going to ignore it for the time being coz it isn’t affecting us so hey let her do wat she wants ;-) … however I did feel a bit guilty in writing about if for a while then decided to sod the feeling …. Such is life …

Now for the Quickies (I know u all have missed them):

• My family … are fine (thank god)
• Uhem ... He (the unminced mince pie) is also fine (thank god) *BLUSH*BLUSH*
• The SFC’s well hmmm…
• Ohh yes the new friends good & not so good - still have to wire about this (cant wait)
• My bestest friend who left me and relocated to another war zone has finally decided to go home at least no danger. Allhamdullilah
• Ohhh.... as for the vanity heheh its still there and am still the QUEEN… heheheh
• I also have to update all of u on The Crazed Rabid Dog who I used to work for
  And my birthday updates yet to come
• Oh My God ... nearly forgot... i have a young admirer (19 yrs old) also to be discussed
  

In the right light, at the right time, everything is extraordinary.
Aaron Rose

It was once Said: O, beware, my lord, of jealousy!

Well well well … hello there my lovelies… first of all let me tell you all about my weekend…. Like I mentioned I was busy… and the reason being was that it is the Holy Month of Ramadan where we fast I had a gathering of over 45 ppl over at my place which started of with all of us breaking the fast then eating and a seating outside with candles etc and Smoking Shisha (the Hubbly Bubbly) outside in but within the premises of home… thank god it was a success the food was all made by MOI it took me 4 days to prepare anyway it all went off boootifully (of course it would we had organised it) hehehe ohh come on am sure u all missed my vain self ;-) ….

Now we come to the issue at hand which is that ever since I have started dating ppl seem to have a problem … ok yes I know what u all are going to say IGNORE them … That is exactly what I am doing … so then I started getting messages as Face book msgs, sms’s on my mobile and calls on the mobile international and local numbers - (u have to understand that the international numbers and local numbers cant be traced to the Ex.) from The Ex. (who I don’t know and have never met and who became an ex way before he and I ever met so i gave her the benefit of the doubt : though it was difficult coz everything pointed to her)

anyway the msgs etc Said:

* “leave him, he is mine”
* “leave him for her” (name and no name stated)
* “you bitch, you whore”
* “I will ruin you” etc

Am sure you get the picture now, this went on for months and I mean over 4 months continuously….. My Angel and I didn’t fight or have arguments (we knew what was going on and decided to deal with it together and talk about it), he stood by me all the way and vice verse, and then we finally sorted the issue and it stopped …..(so we thought) and ever since yesterday i have started receiving blank call (missed calls) again from a local number - which i am happy to say that i managed to trace and Guess what... the number is the Company mobile where she works (info i got earlier during the day) ... by now i am pissed off i can go to the police but it will look bad for the girl, i have not told him yet i have just been a bit upset since yesterday and he does not know why, it is not his fault but i am entitled to be upset. actually very upset an d jealousy is not part of my nature...... ohh well i don't know what i am going to do.... but any decision that will be made will be done with a cool head and not in anger.

When anger rises, think of the consequences.
Confucius (551 BC - 479 BC)

There is music even in the beauty, and the silent note which Cupid strikes, far sweeter than the sound of an instrument

So well I know I have been away for a while a long while and I keep promising and stating that i am back and bla bla bla (well my lovelies) you know what I mean , but like I explained in my earlier posts, I have in (my eyes a good excuse of being) à hit by cupid’s arrow …. What to do spending time with him is what I love doing and he puts a smile on my face …

well at this point in person I would be trying to keep the evil eyes away… hehehe so anyway I wanted to take this opportunity to wish all Ramadan Kareem also to say hello and that I haven’t forgotten about my blog and since the since Cupid decided to make me his target ohhh this is so much to tell and discuss that my be I am also worried if I start writing this blog will turn into several book hehehehe

So I do promise that I will write soon well next week since I am busy this weekend preparing for an Iftar (small feast) at my place so wont be able to write about anything till next week once its over I need to relax then start.

When I was from Cupid's passions free, my Muse was mute and wrote no elegy.
Ovid (43 BC - 17 AD), Amores

I Refuse To Be Bored ... Coz Am NOT Boring....

So here I am sitting at home (it is after 9 pm) when I had a whole day planned out as follows:

• An emergency meeting with firm (related to work- damage control that the TRASH caused)

• Lunch with well hmmm ;-) – yes my lovelies guess guess guess

• Then out to the beach with friends to relax till dinner

But did it happen NO .... after the emergency meeting that lasted a couple of hours I was home for lunch (and was working through that too) and then back to the office with my colleague to try and sort things out till about 8 pm …

so what happened in the office we had another meeting with some technical specialists and then we did some work and tried but we I think are still in disbelief of having encountered the TRASH and what happened the electricity went off and we found a dead cockroach yucky eeeewww …. And so we decided to leave…

So of course there was no outing I just went straight home … and I was home … and my parents were out and so was the maid and driver … I was home alone heheh …. i thought of the movie home alone ;-)…

but just imagine I had to carry my stuff all the way to my room...(ohh come one ppl u know that it was coming hehehe couldn’t help it ) my royal blood had not surface till now so I felt it needed toooo … heheheheh ;-) what to do my vanity prevails at times heheh ….

So any I decided that since I was alone I might as well write about my day which was ok can’t complain…. So now I decided that I will start and what happened just as I finished the 4 lines the house was full everyone was back and of course I had to stop and then continued to write the rest of this post …..

but in reality I can’t seem to focus much since my thought are wondering to a particular person who is a part of me and whom I am terribly missing you see he puts a smile on my face every day morning noon and night …. And like I thank god for my parents and family ….. I also thank him for making this person a part of me and my life……… he does make my world boootiful …. Alhamdulillah ….

However, I can’t have a long phone conversation with him but I do enjoy talking to his phone hehehehe hmmmm so I told we need to go into relationship on phone counseling heheheh we both laughed …… with is in mind I bid u all good night and sweet dreams now I go and bother him with my call …. ;-) am sure he has missed me:P byeeeeeeeeee

If the weak hand, that has recorded this tale, has, by its scenes, beguiled the mourner of one hour of sorrow, or, by its moral, taught him to sustain it - the effort, however humble, has not been vain, nor is the writer unrewarded.
Ann Radcliffe

He Told Us That He Got Where HE is Today Through HARD Work - WE should have Asked "WHOSE"!!!

Well my lovelies yes yes yes I know it has been a while and you have miss the Vain Queen but then so much has been going on with me that I really don’t know where to begin… so while I ramble on with a bit about everything which I happen to do most of the time I will hopefully figure out where to begin…… but before anything else I am sure ur all wondering how my family is mum dad are Alhamdulillah fine … and uhem the hmmm the unminced Meat pie is fine too (about him you will just have to wait… you see if I start in detail or even otherwise it will my blog will never end) god bless them all….

So let’s see (hehe I guess my ramblings didn’t go on for as long as they may have or has it?) …. So much for the statement made above… but anyway I had initially wanted to write about privacy but then I decided against since that is a topic on its own and shouldn’t be merged into other topics as I usually do (well my lovelies there u have it my ranting and rambles that go on forever and that I know you all looooove hehehe ) ok ok ok….

Am sure you all know that The Queen works … so one day I decided I had, had enough of working with an eccentric person – who believed red bull (the drink) was NON VEG, and extract and enzymes of bulls (the animal) ……….. heheheh ohh and that France and Lebanon the countries shared the same boarder…

yes I know but I can’t explain……and found (at the time I thought was an interesting person to work with) DUUUh wrong !!! me never you know better than to think that hmmm the queen wrong (humility is there but hey you all know me by now … anyway little did I know that the next person would be hmmm let’s see a crazed rabied dog (naaa I love dogs so not to insult the animal we will refer to him as IT or just plain TRASH) in my opinion and that of others who am sure will agree with me (who know who I am talking about )….

The company is great… but u know the saying 1 rotten apple spoils the lot well thank god he is a quarantined trashy parasite…. Whom we hope we(we as in my ppls and me) have gotten rid off….. trust me he is a unique species from God only know where… a psychiatric unit /team would not want to touch or get close to …. So basically the above has kept me busy from blogging like before ….

From the new so called boss – TRASH the following are some words he uses:

· Qualy = Quality spelt as qualiti
· Autolise/autolise = utilize
· Flowers = flour
· Hidely = to hide / behind his back

Oh and yes he brainstorms with himself… (no comment and if I remember anything will keep u posted)

Ok and yes I will admit my work is a small part in comparison to (shyly which he can make me feel) my Angel sorry ppl I can’t refer to him as a meat pie coz he isn’t he is my very own angel who:

© puts a smile on my face every day morning noon and night
© makes me heart skip not just one beat many beats… aaahhhh ;-)

and soo much more that like I said before would go on and on and on…. (hmm while typing the on and on bit I thought of the Ariston add from yester year……….. ok YES ppl It happened and he has kept me from being in contact with all my lovelies since he takes president over all… now now no need to be upset or jealous coz I still do love all of ya…. And since its 4 20 am I think I will bid all my lovelies goodnight /good morning

Quickies:

• My family … are fine (thank god)
• The SFC’s well we are now at WAR aha … don’t worry am not giving up … I am not going to lose this time
• Met a couple amazing ppl from ksa a pilot and a presenter – topic for another post
• Ohh and reunited with a friend pimpheny…. Defiantly a topic for another day too
• Ohhh.... as for the vanity heheh its still there and am still the QUEEN… heheheh
• Hmmmm I know you are all curious … yes yes yes wont ever (inshalaah) mince him… He is my angel

To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides
David Viscott

Get all the fools on your side and you can be elected to anything.
Frank Dane

Parents Give Us Life and the Dimensions and Tools to Live it...

Now as usual this day of mine is going to be divided into 2 or more topics ….. The most important part of this day was being with my parents whom I love dearly… (God give them both long lives and mine included) – as we say (my PPLS ) will understand that statement as for the others we have a saying in Arabic when wishing parents or loved ones a long life we are willing to sacrifice what ever time given to us to add to their lives if we could (but we all know in reality we get what is written for us)

Anyway …. So we had a family gathering we went to out a group of us family and friends and while my dad was eating I noticed a slight tremor in his hands …. (Ok we know our parents are growing older – and aging is a process we can’t stop) and a few days earlier something with my mom … she is getting less sleep....

(Al hamdullilah as for health etc they are fine) but we worry just like they do for us … and every time I think of it my eyes swell up in tears because seriously we all have wonderful parents but I have seen that many ppl don’t really appreciate what they have done for us …. i have been blessed with my parents ....

I have seen friends talk badly about their parents also yell at them speak disrespectfully to them … and it pains me to see that….. I am not saying I am perfect we all have had out moment especially when younger but as a person grows so should their behavior and in a lot of cases I have not seen that …

however there is one person very dear to me and close to me for whom I have a lot of respect for (for many reasons – yes another topic) but a big part of it is coz of the respect I have seen him give his family …..

every day, the first thing I do after thanking god for everything he has blessed me with, I will without fail tell my parents that I love them…. I have been doing this for years now I can’t remember for how long really …..

I think I rambled on about them coz they are important and I haven’t really mentioned them much in my posts and I guess I just wanted to take an opportunity to thank my parents (my mom who does read this blogs but pretends it doesn’t exist) bless her…. And also for all the parents for being parents …. And also create and awareness that we should appreciate parents, family etc a lot more it seems to be dying away that bond with each generation….

Call it a clan, call it a network, call it a tribe, call it a family. Whatever you call it, whoever you are, you need one.
Jane Howard

Writing Gives Us the Illusion of Control... Or Does it !!

I know, I know, I know ….I have been bad by being away for so long but am sure many of u have been through this phase of being busy with everything and nothing at all….

Yes there is so much to tell since my last post (which I believe has ruffled a few feathers)- stickies remember J anyway - up date on that will be in the next few post with a few other things …this post is basically to tell all my lovelies that please start reading again coz there is so much to tell ….

Quick Updates (have decided to call them quickies from now on) – and yes am saying it with a straight face: P well… now stop it I know what u all are like an no naughty thoughts J hehehe pweez .. So here goes

Quickies:

• My family … are fine (thank god)
• The SFC’s well we are not talking really … its just so difficult … don’t worry am not giving up just need to discipline me self
• Made a few more new friends (good and not so good) – topic for another post
• My bestest friend who left has relocated to another war zone (I mean a lot of my stress is related to worrying about her)
• Ohhh.... as for the vanity heheh its still there and am still the QUEEN… heheheh
• Hmmmm I know you are all curious … HMMM I think… I will leave the Meat / Mince Pie alerts for later …. Let’s put it this way there is a possibility that I may have not minced 1 this time …
  
  And the most important of all is Wishing All of YOU a HAPPY New Year

The empires of the future are the empires of the mind.
Sir Winston Churchill (1874 - 1965),

Self-respect is the fruit of discipline...!!

As many of u may remember and for those who have not yet read my blog … over the last few months I have written about friendship, relationships etc….

However what is about to be told is very close to my heart … we not only mine but other ppl as well….

Now as u all know … a couple of weeks ago I back from a holiday of a life time (which I will write and enlighten all of u about later … xxxx) and during that course we were only in touch with family (both my friend and myself) anyway when we arrived … a few of my very close friends just disappeared off the face of the earth puuff just like that … ohh yes if your all shocked can u imagine my reaction… it was this that made do a little ppl purifying (where I cleanse out my phone list off ppl who are no longer important to me – and to be on that list heheh its a big deal – for I must me extremely pissed off)

Now that was a brief of one of the things that took place and the other thing was related to a topic on relationships that I had written about in May titled: Do Women Want Sensitive Man!!! Ohhh yes the mince pie episodes have begun … yes my lovelies interesting stuff …..;)

TLC tender loving care …. Many emotions and act (heheheh ) now now I am fasting so please let me behave and don’t side track me as always :-)

we were back again to the sensitivity of the meat pies again… so now there is a mince pie and a meat pie who are how sticky and I am not joking when together in public or private they are all over each other that it is now over the top close friends are all sick of it ….

The point is this mince pie is in the category of one of my best friends and the meat pie too…. so when I came back from my oliday …. I wanted to meet her.... was excited etc then we all met up for dinner later at a restaurant…. And its been over 5 months that they have been dating (families of both have knowledge) and by then the novelty of public displays of affection are usually held to a basic or a minimum … please don’t misunderstand me I am NOT against public displays of affection if done tastefully on occasion ,

but this is how they are … they are on the net most of the working day then on the phone and then have lunch /dinner … or coffee every day and that’s sweet but ….. Until the families knew we were being used so that they would and could meet …. And now we would be so lucky if they would respond….. (Was very upset)…

So then what did the SWEET pwincess do she noticed something was not in place so she called up the mince pie (her friend) and asked if all was ok and etc what real friends do … and the mince pie said all well but just tired of work so I thought ok all well and since it was mentioned that we havened had coffee together on or own for a while I decided to ask her if she wanted to have coffee or meet up just us girlies (2) of us since we have don’t that in a while and what response did I get

Mince pie “ and not see him .. haram but I love him, I cant not see him”

Pwincess response (in shock) “ hope u have a nice evening, but u do what u need to do, take care and talk later”

ppl I was gob smacked really I was even in school I didn’t see this much stickiness its just sickening

Also just so that u know the mince pie involved is as bad … to the point that ….. both of them show major signs of insecurity coz if this bubble bursts then they have lost many friends (or are in the process of loosing many)

I am not jealous….. am just disgusted and feel used and I am not the only one ….

Updates:

• no meat pie alerts for all those who are curios
• the SFC’s are being eliminated
• made a some new friends (very lucky to have)
• bonding on a different level with my old friends
• and my family members are fine ……
• and last but not least..... I am still vain and a queen … and love u all hehehehe
  

The superior man, when resting in safety, does not forget that danger may come. When in a state of security he does not forget the possibility of ruin. When all is orderly, he does not forget that disorder may come. Thus his person is not endangered, and his States and all their clans are preserved.
Confucius

(551 BC - 479 BC)

I Grow More Intense As I Age ...;)

oh my oh my .... oh my ... yes am back for good now ;) sorry but i was going through the ups and downs of GUno (a phase) and a little more that had to so with me .... so much to tell u all my lovelies ...

where do i begin .... hmmmm ok let start with this:

in my earlier posts i mentioned that one of my best friends who is my angel has left Oman for good i was obviously gutted but we are in touch and i do miss her so much ... but as it is known such friendships will never die ...... shes mad and insane and i love her ......

so i had to mention her and now for the next bit:

i celebrated my birthday on July 24 2007 ... HHEHEHE and yes finally turned the legal age of 18 :P hehehe what to do ... ok ok i lied its 21 ..... well as u all know u never ask a lady her age heheheh ;) so all i can tell u all is (hmmm i cant remember if i have mentioned it in my posts oh well .... its 26+ ) ;)... my birthday was a blast .... some of my friends were planning a surprise thing but i decided to take over and sent out 44 invitations of which 38 confirmed and i had 2 or 3 last minute cancellations ...... (and yes i looked booootiful heheheh)

however over 70 ppl turned up... (yes they looove me ) hehehe..... but seriously i have some really good friends all of them are lovely ...... so as i was saying it was absolutely a brilliant birthday which took place in Left Bank....... here are some pictures and this is for those who just might know who i am after these pic then i request u to keep my identity to urselves :)

This is my water melon cake that my parents had for me heheh since i am supposed to be getting rid of the SFC's (SEXY FAT CELLS) we were laughing all through while cutting the really water melon ;)

And this is the cake my friends got for me ... as u all will realise that even they know about my vanity issues heheheheh ....

This next pic was what my table arrangement looked like ;)

Last but not least have to introduce u to some new friends of mine they are thowwwww thweet ....give also to me on my birthday...

so my lovelies this is all for now .... later i will tell all about my holiday ..... ohh yes and there u will have meat pies and mince pies and many more colourful pies hmmmmmm and maybe u might get an insight to what i was up tooo heheheh ;) sweet innocent me

The older I get, the more I feel almost beautiful...
Sharon Olds,

Oprah Magazine, May 2004

While there's life, there's hope......& the show must go on....

Hello there my lovelies …. My oh my I have missed u all so much …. And there is so much to tell …. However I will take u all through it step by step……

So as u all know by now…. we were hit by hurricane GUNO … (the bastard)….. in a nutshell were all recovering and life is going on ….

Where do I start from ...... hmmm well life did go back to normal well close to it same issues and all….

Remember the initial meat pie mentioned in my post dated 28/03/07 under the title Character is what God and the Angels know of us ...Reputation is what men and women think of us... well heheh after being minced apparently he survived the mincing well not completely but still he is a fighter bless him and GUNO … anyway he called and tried to make conversation with me like where are u going on holiday… so I said that I am planning a holiday but not going to tell anyone where just yet …. So this is how the conversation went :

Main meat pie said “I am also coming with u !”

And I said “ no”

Then he said “why”

I said “ coz first I don’t travel with ppl and I like traveling on my own .. and second … in what capacity will u come with me ..!!!!??” heheh then to scare him off

I said “unless the with me is my husband he doesn’t no one is coming with me …”

Hehehe and it became very quiet and I said “ no need for stupidity… and pointless conversation… if u have nothing more to say … then good bye u have a nice day”

I think he was so shocked that he said by and then called me up the next day complaining how unimportant I made him feel (pooor poooor meat pie) hehehehe so I told him that its true he was not important and that was coz there was nothing between us …. Ohh yes u all might think I am cruel but sometime harsh measures are required to be used …. And I didn’t feel bad…..

Remember the other meat pie who followed me home mentioned in my post dated 19/05/07 under the title Being Followed ....! well he sent me roses red ones… unfortunately for him I detest red roses … I love white one…. But that was very sweet of him…….

Oh and last but not least the SFC’s anyone remember them well then u have to refer to my post dated 24/03/07 under the title The poor SFC's that burnt and vanished into the air... well I finally joined the GYM (yukhiiee) but it has to be done coz really I was loosing focus and now all good a new waist is on its way to be created….


There is so much more to write about but then I have to give u my stories in doses….

All my lovelies hope u all have a lovely weekend

Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former.
Albert Einstein (1879 - 1955)

2. GUNO: For Oman and the People: The future will be better tomorrow.

as u all must have realised my love for His Majesty Sultan Qaboos and Oman (including my country men) is unconditional... and there are many like myself who feel this way .... yes i ..... am patriotic anyway the reason for this post is what some ppl know but many don't ....

during guno things started to go horribly wrong as u all must have heard and seen the destruction that took place ..... loss of lives and property, the increase in water prices and lack of electricity etc ... what has to be understood that despite that ..... precaution of damage control was taken and that what happened was going to happen we couldn't actually ask guno to leave ...! anyway i am not here to talk about the all that happened i think many are doing that ..... (please don't think that i am turning a blind eye to the damage and loss of lives and all but its just that many are writing about it.... i am not ignoring the grief of those that have lost.. a prayer is said for them too)

i am here to tell u :

that under His Majesty's admirable leadership and his concern for the lives of his ppl ... providing (till date) aid of all kind ..... Oman started operations on 10/06/07 and within 4 days of that the main roads started functioning as normal and life is on its way to being the same if not better..... i believe that was the best thing that could have happened ... it needed to be done coz emphasising the disaster would have dampened the moral of the ppl.....

the government (all sectors) did an amazing job working round the clock to get things going again and they still are working round the clock to make Oman better that what it was .....

and the ppl of Oman (local and residents) all united ..... working together with the officials doing there part in saving lives.... by providing food, clothing all the necessities required to help the very badly affected areas subjecting themselves to sickness and fatigue .... the ppl who i saw were as young as 10 yrs old and others old enough to be my grandparents .... helping providing whatever they can through any means to those in need .... we all did and are still doing our parts as citizens of this beautiful country ..... what i saw and felt (since i was helping in more than one place) was a sense of a nation united .... everyone was there for each other .....

i cannot explain the strength of the nations citizens and its government.... u may think i am exaggerating but i am not .... what i can say is that this is a country with a strong backbone..... i really am at a loss for words ..... all i can say is we shouldn't forget to thank GOD for we did survive it... it could have been worse ....

I pray that God keep His Majesty Sultan Qaboos in excellent health and insaallah a long life and keep him safe always ....

GOD BLESS HIS MAJESTY THE SULTAN AND HIS PEOPLE

In charity there is no excess.
Sir Francis Bacon (1561 - 1626)

1. GUNO: For Oman and the People: The future will be better tomorrow.

it has been a complete disaster...... what took 37 years to build was destroyed over night ..... muscat and the sharqiya region (basically all of oman that was affected) have been so badly hit.... ppls lives that were lost ( we still dont know the exact number of deaths ) .....

so much was lost..... what was most upsetting was the fact that many ppl didnt take heed to the the warnings issued and when actually physically were told to move out of the dangerous areas they still didnt listen and many paid the price with lives and damage to there property......

it is just very annoying when the officials are trying to rescue and help and ppl are coming in the way .... especially now after all is over ppl are going sightseeing instead of remaining at home or trying to help ......

but many ppl are helping but still there are those who are being a liability .....

as for the weather : its still raining on and off and we my family and friends have been lucky that we are alive loss was inevitable but were alive and kicking alhamdulliah ...

on a last note i would like to say that the damage control was handled well and loss was minimised to the best of anyones ability what happened was going to happen and it could have been worse so here i would like to:

Thank God, His Majesty Sultan Qaboos with his amazing leadership (and foresight) and his government for all that he did and is still doing and will do for his ppl ..... God give him a long life and good health and keep him safe for all of us ......

i would also like to thank all those ppl who have opened their homes to others for shelter and given to ppl who have lost so much .... (including my parents).......

there is always a reason for everything and in this disaster i am sure we will learn something or the other ...

While grief is fresh, every attempt to divert only irritates. You must wait till it be digested, and then amusement will dissipate the remains of it.
Samuel Johnson (1709 - 1784)

Gratitude is born in hearts that take time to count up past mercies.
Charles E. Jefferson (1860 - 1937)

GUNO more pictures

GUNO more pictures.....

muttrah the corniche
al khuwair near my house



muttrah (yesterday) the corniche

GUNO from my House

u see the table its a plastic table above..... it hasnt moved hehehe like everything else that is swishing around....since guno paid us a visit .... bizzar

Cyclone Gonu hits Oman

The cyclone is expected to be worse than one that hit Oman's Masirah Island in 1977. (NASA/GSFC)

A powerful cyclone began buffeting Oman on Tuesday, forcing the evacuation of thousands of people from Masirah Island in the Arabian Sea and closing the country's main gas export terminal.The Arabian Sea's most powerful storm in modern times has the potential to cause the complete destruction of mobile homes, major damage to lower floors of structures near the shore, and prompt a massive evacuation of residential areas as far inland as 10km, according to experts. A weather service official told Oman state television Tropical Cyclone Gonu, which earlier reached the equivalent of a maximum-force Category Five hurricane

winds of up to 260 kmh (160 mph) and waves as high as 12 metres battered Oman's eastern coast, the state news agency forecast thunder storms and heavy rainfall in the oil producing country. The weather service offical expected floods."It's quite common to have heavy rains at this time of year in Oman," said a Western executive based in Muscat."But this weather is quite unusual and they're calling it the worst in Oman's modern history."

"The current forecast keeps the eye of Gonu over water as it brushes by Oman and then turns the system toward southern Iran," Kevin Roth, senior meteorologist at the Weather Channel, wrote on the company's website.

Civil Defence apparatus mounts emergency response:

To make landfall on Sharqiyah, Wusta coastt Masirah Island in path of stormt 10-metre-high storm surge likelyt National Civil Defence Committee convenest Coastal residents urged to shift to safer areast Army, Air Force, security agencies on standby t Schools as temporary shelter to affected peoplet Stockpiles of food, water planned in key areas

"Gonu is moving in a northwesterly direction towards Oman and likely to make landfall between Masirah and Ras al Hadd by Wednesday night or Thursday morning.

It is expected to bring very heavy rains and strong winds. Tidal waves along the coast can range from 4 to 10 metres. This combination of rain, wind and waves can pose a threat to low-lying areas.

We expect 150mm of rain to fall over a 24-hour period as the storm makes landfall."The tropical storm is expected to influence weather conditions as far north as Sohar on the Batinah coast.

Heavy rains, squally conditions and high waves are also forecast along the Muscat coast if the storm maintains strength even after making landfall.

Fishermen have been advised against venturing out to sea during the three-day storm alert. Gonu, since upgraded to a deadly Category 5 storm, will traverse diagonally towards the Sharqiya region and beyond over the Eastern and Western Hajar mountains before heading out into the Gulf of Oman from the North Batinah side.

In the process, the cyclonic storm is expected to trigger turbulent weather overland across Sohar, Liwa and Shinas, particularly over the mountains.Meanwhile, authorities are mounting a major emergency response in preparation for the looming cyclonic threat.

All security agencies and government ministries that make up the National Civil Defence Committee have been issued 'work orders' setting out their respective roles in providing active support to the emergency services. According to Lt Col Azhar al Kindy, Director of the Executive Office of the NCDC, around 4,000 ROP personnel, including those from the Special Forces and Police Academy, are being mobilised as part of the emergency effort triggered by Gonu's impending arrival.

"Units from the Sultan's Armed Forces (SAF) will be standing by, while the Royal Air Force of Oman and the ROP Air Wing will be ready to provide all necessary assistance. They will be available to supply food, medicine and provisions where needed. We are sending food and water to areas likely to be affected by the storm. Essential supplies are being stockpiled in these areas."

A number of schools, and even some government departments, on the mainland have been earmarked for use as temporary shelters during the period of the storm.

The ROP will set up three 'theatres of operation' in Muscat to help oversee the emergency and rescue effort once Gonu arrives.

Another 'threatre of operation' will also be set up jointly with the Ministry of Defence and other security agencies. The ROP is positioning ambulances in areas likely to hit by the cyclone.

Doctors attached to Health Ministry institutions in these areas are being urged to cancel all leave during the storm alert. With communications likely to be disrupted and telecom masts damaged, authorities plan to turn to wireless and satellite-based Thuraya communications.

GOD BLESS HIS MAJESTY SULTAN QABOOS FOR ALL THAT HE DOES FOR HIS PPL

leaving it all in Gods hands

GUNO

A picture taken 05 June 2007 shows thick clouds over Muscat. Cyclone Gonu packing winds of up to 260 kilometres (160 miles) an hour advanced today towards the oil-producing Gulf state of Oman where it was expected to make landfall within 24 hours

All pleasures contain an element of sadness.

Hello hello hellooo…. My fans am heheheh …… I am very sorry to have been away from u all for so long ….. and the following are the reasons that I was kept away….

• I learnt my bestest friend was leaving (one of my angels) and was relocating so was gutted …. And am still gutted… I know this is life but …. Oh well I will have to live with it ….. and shes sad tooo
• Then I was on a course (ISO 9001) quality control stuff and had an exam fished that got through (al hamdulillah)
• And another very good friend of mine also left on Friday
• And many birthdays gone and on the way ….

So I hope u all forgive me for going off like that next time I will try and at least let u all know.......

Lord, make me an instrument of Your peace!

Where there is hatred let me sow love;

Where there is injury, pardon;

Where there is doubt, faith;

Where there is despair, hope;

Where there is darkness, light;

Where there is sadness, joy.

Saint Francis of Assisi (1181 - 1226)

Does a Wise Man/Woman Carry there Possessions ... ie the other half ...

A topic that was dicussed over juices, sandwiches and excellent choco cake and banofi pie (the really eadable one) in a post mentioned earlier I talked about this banofi pie and u know I tried it yesterday for the first time and man oh man ayyyyyaaayyyayyyaaa I died and went to hevean …. I had a really nice evening and it was us girlies and just brilient …no offence meat pies hhehehehe am not into doing the all of us getting together its nice to be out with just the girls sometimes…. So we chatted and laughed and smoked ……. And discussed all the problems in the world and one the was important ….

------> CLINGY MEAT PIES….

I don't know about other women but I'm not very keen on clingy men. …….I find them too..... uh, sticky for lack of a better term. HEHEHEH .....

Anyway……. to further elaborate on the clingy-ness of a man…… I'd define it as something -- er.... someone who's too mushy……… shouldn't that be reserved for mince pies?

We women specie are the ones who are expected to be extra sweet and uh, let's say……..gooey……….. Hahaha.......I've always thought so anyway …. It true…...

I guess what I'm getting at is that I like my man to be less dependent on me for attention….. Don't get me wrong…….. I like getting his attention…… putting emphasis on 'getting'…… which signifies the action needed to acquire such……. I see it as a challenge on my part and once I get what I want, I like the satisfying feeling of getting it…… This also means that the guy will be willing to give it tooo….. of course……

And I reckon…… the more the guy can surprise me…….the more I'd find him attractive.

Oh, well. Where is he? Hehe

What am trying to say is that his whole day should not revolve around me ….coz being clingy to me will make me walk.....………

they should not be helpless & useless without that the other half to control........ I believe that these kind of ppl be it meat pies or mince pies need to learn to be on their own…… to entertain themselves and to make one self happy about themselves instead of depending on another person for happiness…….. If u are this type of a person …….look around.......u do not need to depend on the other person (man/woman)…....u do not need to be around ur other half everyday……..give them some ****ing space! give urself some space to get to know who u are as a person!

See after reading this many must have thought mixed clingy with romantic please don’t confuse the 2 ……. Showing ur affection for ur other half and making sure that they are priority and soing special things (suprises) I love that heheheh… on a regular basis in not clingy it good old fashioned .... People need to have lives outside of thier partner ……….. no matter how much they love them.....

Desire makes everything blossom; possession makes everything wither and fade.
Marcel Proust (1871 - 1922)

Being Followed ....!

Yes I know it’s been a few days since I have last entertained all of my fans and well wishers …. Hehehehe (again u all know me by now soo this statement should not be surprising as for the new comers then u have to read the blog to know what I am talking about…)

so yes on Thursday I left work on the whole I been in a good mood generally speaking … anyway so while driving back home with my blue toothy on and talking to my friend we were confirming the plans for the evening and I started laughing and I told her that I was sorry but there was this car a 4 W drive …. And he had a stickers on “if u want to know me ask about me” … and I started laughing I mean at that moment I found it funny it was witty … not the standard “no fear” or “scorpions” etc am sure u all know what I am talking about ….. anyway an to top it all he cute ….;) anyway so I continued talking but he spotted me laughing … now I usually don’t laugh or show any signs and all but I couldn’t help it …. So guess what happened next ..of course he followed me …. But gave up after awhile during all this I didn’t notice that another car was following me too…. So seriously come on ppl anyway I parked near my house and he stopped his car and this is how the conversation went:

meat pie: “ salaam( with a cute cute smile and so politely) how are u? sorry to have disturbed u but could we exchange phone numbers and keep in touch..?”

Jawahir: “ walaikum al salaam (with a smile)… am sorry but I can’t give u my number”

Meat pie: “ why r u married?…is this ur house?”

Jawahir: “no am not married and yes this is my house why … would u like to come in and have coffee with my family …! (she said with a laugh)….”

Meat pie “are u sure this is ur house ..?”

Jawahir: “yes I am… why”

Meat pie: “well it was a pleasure meeting u ..! and inshaallah we well be seeing each other soon” (with a smile)

Well before u all make a judgment usually I would snap or ignore but in this case I really had no intention of ruining my mood and what else can he doo I mean what chance does he have that we would meet socially poor meat pie heheheh … anyway …

So I was on a high….. on life in general… since the morning then the above happened which I took as entertainment for me for the day …. Heheheh … I mean come on the Queen haaaaaaaaaas to be entertained at some from time to time …..

I then joined my friends at a common friends house (a girl I recently met) but a gem of a person ….. had a brilliant time …. Then we went to this other invitation of a friend from school he organized it so we went…..

Now I enjoyed the company of my friends but I was towards the end of the evening and was grateful that I left ............

Older Women.... Younger Men....!

I was once out … and I got a call from a friend and he had wanted to say hi to my baby cozin well the one I help raise she’s my baby cookie anyway so they talked and then after I disconnected the line my cozin asked me if I liked him I said no don’t be silly he’s too young and he like a brother …. So this is what she said to me ….

“Tooo young …!! But xxxx (my nick name) age is but a number ….!!” She said this to me when she was 12 or 13 she is now 18 … bless my baby cookie …. Anyway….. I was shocked and couldn’t digest that she new these things but then I remembered her family all living and settled in UK and have been for awhile ….. So she would know more about these things relationships etc than we did at her age ……

So anyway ...... a few days ago my friend and I were talking about younger men hehehs since we are booootiful at are primes heheheheh ;) and single we actually found that many men that flirted or etc were younger than us ……. We are still not sure if we could be with younger men or not …. So is it just a number ???

I mean I will be 31 in July so how young is too young … coz then being a cradle snatcher or breastfeeding a guy (heheheh ) behave all is something I do not want be hehehehehehheeh


Since it’s quite typical almost cliché to see an older man with a much younger woman……… It has become the standard that men date/ marry younger women……. but we have yet to accept the idea of a woman with a man much younger than her……. Am I right or wrong ……

I don’t know if I would be able to date/ marry younger than me …. Don’t know …. !!!


And just to kill ur curiosity I have not been asked out by any cute young meat pies...

The secret of staying young is to live honestly, eat slowly, and lie about your age.
Lucille Ball (1911 - 1989)

Do Women Want A Sensitive Man....!!

if all meat pies stop to think about the one thing all mince pies want more of in a relationship….. chances are it's TLC… so what is TLC you ask? ………. Tender Loving Care……………….. Although TLC encompasses many emotions and acts uhem uehm heheheh ………. Now now don’t side track me…… it boils down to the sensitivity of a meat pie………….. As long as meat pies are sensitive………… mince pies are happy…… just tell me I am wrong ….!! Oh well that’s my opinion…. anyway….

this is what a friend said to me once after being frustrated with his relationship with his girlfriend…..

“……the problem is that if you start giving in to your feminine side…… you will also be giving in to her wants…….. But is this really what mince pies want?”

my answer of course being ……

“….Of course mince pies want the meat pies that will shed the occasional tear at the conclusion of Titanic”

now now don’t get me wrong personally I didn’t much care for titanic but that’s not the m point so anyway……..then I thought….. does she really want an effeminate meat pie? Now I wouldn’t wont that but then I am speaking for myself….. That's an oxymoron in itself.....isn’t it not !!!!

(oxymoron is a figure of speech or expressed idea in which apparently contradictory terms appear)

now going all the way back to prehistoric times……meat pies were the providers in the couple….. and that has changed in today’s day and age….. but a I like that idea….. and mince pies maintained the residence…….. I like this idea too….. she prepared the food and cared for the children……. However ….this has not extended into the 21st century so much……….. today women and men are equal ……… (now u all know I don’t believe that they are but anyway …….) it's merely a statement for the more old-fashioned couples…… so no need to give me shit about this! …. Oh dear did I use that word heheheh ….shyte

Mince pies want a take-charge and authoritative meat pies that can take care of business…………. a decisive meat pies that can get things done, but with a tender heart……. Well that part of what I want….. but as for the public what say u…..Or am I simply WRONG……….


Updates:

*no meat pie alerts for all those who are curios
*unfortunately the SFC’s have been very happy since I haven’t tried to eliminate them due to *the fact I was very ill but don’t u all worry they are going to gooooo….
*I met up with a couple of very old school mates … and u know I am glad that we met I believe a long lasting friendship is in store ….
*and my family members are fine ……
*and last but not least..... I am still vain and a queen … and love u all hehehehe

have a lovely weekend all

I think of myself as an intelligent, sensitive human being with the soul of a clown which always forces me to blow it at the most important moments.
Jim Morrison

The Kiss a FEW tips ....

Ever since went to bed last night and woke up this morning …(also going on for a few days now I have to be honest)…. all I could think was hmmmm kiss … kiss… kisss….

Yes ppl its been a long time …. Sooo long that sometimes I think I may have forgotten hehehe but we all know no one can forget to be able to KISS … so that I wont kiss the next person I see….. (heheheh how many just wished it would be u …. Heheheh anyway u all know I wouldn’t do that I can personally cant just kiss any tom dick or harry … (ok ok khalfan, khamis or mazin- why I choose these name I don’t know…) but like I said before I cant just kiss anyone …. So I thought let write about it and give the boys some tips and others might share their methods…..

Anyway…… so when it comes to kissing….. the meat pie who seems to have all the time in the world has exactly the right idea…….heheh so we wish …..

Anyway ….at the beginning of a relationship…….u want to reveal ur:

*tender
*creative
*passionate side

The kiss ......is the embodiment of all these wonderfully seductive qualities………. So I believe ……. It can not be:

*Hurried
*or delayed
*or — goodness forbid — avoided (hehehehe )

as far as I am concerned Kissing is an essential part of romance …………….. & arguably the best part... unless we're talking shared crème brulee by candlelight or hmmmm strawberries n cream hmmmm …. (ppl I told u not to side track me) …. .

so the mince pies like the meat pies who knows how to use his mouth — for great conversations and other pursuits (I giggled while writing this – oh am so cute hehehe )…….

So ….don't focus only on our lips meat pies……. We loved the first kiss….. the second kiss ……and the good night kiss…….. Now show us what else u've got... and maybe we'll return the favor……. (too straight forward girls for u well then talk say what u have to say)

here are a few tips on kissing from the boootiful queen heheh (such vanity) any way yes kissing so meat pies u go to the :

• The hands: they deserve a loving touch when we least expect it...

a kiss on the back of a mince pies's hand is a Victorian formality that is…………. Unfortunately sadly but truly going the way of the dodo…. Ie becoming extinct ………… so sad ……... because a little attention in this perfectly innocent spot can start a thrilling chill………… There's no need to stick with convention when u reach for her hand…………. By the way meat pies her palms and fingures also deserve a little attention.

• The neck:

the coup de grace (trying to rember some of my French- seriously ppl I mean I can barely get by now hehehe) anyway…..of all kissing spots …..a mince pies's neck should also be kissed often….. and for longer periods of time that other places (for starters)…….. it I believe that to most meat pies's it is an essential part of the kissing repertoire ( a nicer word than list of collection hehehe)

So start with the jaw line and move to the collarbone…… leaving a trail of kisses in ur wake………………. a place where u can vary ur kissing style…… from chaste to deep and everything in between…….(also nibble a little... don't be shy) …… we mince pies might even giggle in delight…………. Heheheh …..

• The ear : meat pies proceed with caution - because not everybody is an ear-kissing enthusiast – I hate I twhen a man puts his tounge in my ear but hey some women do like it .... personally ….eeeeeyyywwww…

so anyway On ur journey from the neck back to the lips….. take a little detour and visit the ear. ……the earlobe is an ok place to start…..be gentle and whisper some sweet nothings while u're kissing her ear also meat pies do ask her if she doesn’t mind it I mean don’t be offended if she tell u she doesn’t like it …..

the little map that I have just described to all of u is anything but complete….since just about any spot of skin is a great place for a kiss (heheheh hmmmm- make u wonder sah hehehe --- ok I will try to behave)

*the wrists
*shoulder
*eyelids
*knuckles — laish laa …why not?

We mince pies will instantly relax and warm up to a meat pies that understands how to be sensual……. Whether u met ur lady last week or have been married to her since year dot………. Go get those lips moving……. Just remember to go brush ur teeth (or dentures) first……. Hahah u wouldn’t want bad breath now would u …..? heheheheheh

I hope this helps…………and also now u know a little of what booootifull me likesssssss….

I wasn't kissing her, I was whispering in her mouth.
Chico Marx (1891 - 1961)

Fall not in love, therefore; it will stick to your face.

HAVE WE STOPPED BELIEVING IN LOVE ????

Love has become a four-letter word. It's one of the most overused, under-appreciated, misunderstood words in the English language........... Nowadays........ the image of love seems more like a 7/11; a convenience store on the road of life........... designed to provide satisfactory feelings without too much effort, rather than the classic sentiment associated with fairytales like Cinderella........... i love cinderellie (a favorite of mine)....

What am I talking about?

I'm talking about how we've changed the definition of love....... It has become an all-encompassing term used to describe virtually any relationship we are in...... even if it is one void of any deep emotional connection. ..............

There are plenty of couples that love each other............ it's a normal, natural emotion that exists when one spends a considerable amount of time with another........... but time makes us love someone............. being in love is a whole other story............ you can love your sister, your mother, your brother, your friends (though you'll never admit to that one unless you're under the influence)...........

but you can only be in love with a woman or that man that sets your heart on fire.........

Unfortunately, nowadays we easily confuse the concept of love with attraction..........

It is better to have loved and lost than never to have lost at all.
Samuel Butler (1835 - 1902)

Are you a gifted flirt ?

whenever we go out there is always a topic or more for discussion and then i come and discuss it with all of u when bee so as to get a bigger picture of things .....so Flirting .... (me i am told am a flirt or ppl perceive me to be a flirt when i am not its just the way i speak or interact with ppl..) one of my best friends (an angel to me) think its hereditary and that i have taken after me mummy who we all love .... hehehe ..... anyway .....

some ppl say that innocent flirting is is good for u some said no....so this is to the meat pies and mince pies:

Raise ur hand if you've ever:

• gotten into a stupid fight with your other half and stormed off in a huff......!!!
• Or if u have gotten a secret rush from flirting with a cute waiter/ waitress or any other person for that matte...... even though u adore ur other half (husband/wife or a partner)....!!!
• Or if u occasionally tell ur other half blatantly untrue things, like, "Sure, I think ur bald spot is sexy!" or " Sure that it doesn't make u look fat!"

Sound familiar? Fighting, flirting, fibbing .....all habits that are big no-no's in a relationship .....but guess what.....everyone does this stuff sometimes - yes.....even the perfect couple that u may know................ !

also do u believe that a lot of supposedly bad love habits not only aren't bad for you....... they just might do your long-term bond a whole lot of good....??

do u believe that these love fouls can actually make your relationship stronger.....closer.....and better than ever...!!

at the same time .....it's dangerous....it's wrong - it's the gateway act to cheating..... in fact to some..... it is cheating. ......but the truth is,......a little innocent flirting with someone other than your steady can have serious relationship benefits............!!!

i really don't know how i would react (if and when i have my other half )..... react were to flirt i know i wouldn't but hey .......

Please let me know what u think.......

Women flirt to keep their stock high, men to get somewhere. Mignon McLaughlin 1960

When Women Get LAZY....!!!

more and more guys are waking up every morning to the feeling of unshaven legs scratching at their thighs and bunion-ridden toes sticking out from under the covers...........

It's a **** shame that these hardworking guys have to watch as their once firm, young beauties transform into cellulite-packing sasquatches who won't so much as eliminate their mustaches ...............i don't know how many of you are facing this in your daily lives......... and i don't mean to put the women down after all they and i are one species heheheh ..........but see for example i know girls who were married with their own consent as in love marriage and other wise etc......and initially their marriages were lovely .........but now they go one for months with out visiting the saloons or doing stuff at home??? as for me personally i go to the saloons ......

i am not saying men aren't the same also but we women shouldn't let our selves go..............it is true that for a lot of cases......once women get married and have children.... they tend to neglect themselves and don't probably realize it......

My observations here ..... not just the hairy legs or the unthreaded mustache which i have mentioned heheh..... i noticed that once a mother.....most Omani women do put on a lots of weight and do nothing to go back to their original size............. (now i know many of u will say well i am cute and pleasingly plump and its baby fat but am working on it since i am not a mother - i will one day be).... anyway........we know that many women get out of shape...... it becomes "normal" not to look physically so good after having a kid what i am trying to say is not criticize being fat but the fact that they don't do anything about it .......

Secondly......I also noticed here that once a woman is at home........ she lets herself go.... she remove her nice cloths and wears these long house gown which are not flattering at all......they don't really bother to have their hair well combed....or to smell nice and wear something which will please their men's eyes............

I think physical appearance outside as well as in the comfort of our home is as important if we are married......women should not only think of themselves but also of their men...

look good for yourself first and look good for your man too...and u meat pies come on when u see ur other half doing that compliment her ... acknowledge that fact .... .... and women don't just do it for them do it for yourselves too....

True that a house should be a place where we can relax,.....but we can still look casual and nice.....it is not because we are at home that we should look as if we just walk out of bed!

THIS IS ALSO APPLICABLE TO MEN

Make all you can, save all you can, give all you can.
John Wesley (1703 - 1791)

Virginity is in the LIES of the Beholder..!!

Read with An OPEN MIND!

One of the most interesting quandaries to ever surface from the relationship pool is whether or not dating/ marrying a virgin is still a man's preference.....................we live in a world where sexual promiscuity is rampant and the practicing of abstinence has all but died out................... eheheheh not all died out some of us are not practicing heheheheh ................just about everyone is having sex .... should i say most of us ........... so much so that deciding between virgins and non-virgins almost seems useless............... until you look at the ppl around u and listen in on there view points ............... that suggests that many men want a "nice" (read: virtuous) woman to settle down with....................but if sex before marriage is a standard practice among today's generation................. in many cases ......... yes yes i know that being in our culture and religion its not allowed etc but its happening and we cant deny it or turn a blind eye............... so wake up ppl and smell the coffee...............is finding a virgin that important.................? let alone possible.............? or some one who has no sexual experience in today's day and age ................? with all due respect to all.............. it is unfortunately a common practice nowadays to tread on that path and explore even if many will not admit the experiences they have had and wish to hide them................ie meat and mince pies both alike......................a lot of young girls and boys are venture to that path in our society and others.......this is for the men.............don't you think there's a real irony here considering that most meat pies want the purest of the pure for marriage..................yet they themselves have already experienced the pleasures of the female flesh...................... what do u all think ......? don't u think that this is a problem........ps..it is a general topic for discussion ...........not for some one to start preaching faith and all........... since well all know what our religion allows us and doesn't .... whatever the faith may be...........

It is one of the superstitions of the human mind to have imagined that virginity could be a virtue.

Voltaire (1694 - 1778)

The Chemistry of Love: It's why your knees go weak, your.................

Am sure that most of the my fans have been through this ......

The Chemistry of Love..... It's why when you fall in love.:

• your knees go weak
• your palms sweat
• your stomach does flip-flops
• and you begin to stammer
• u also get butterflies , etc

When sparks fly between two people..........we're quick to say they have "chemistry"............ not everyone realizes that such couples literally have do have chemistry..............it's what's behind those sweaty palms........... the jumpy stomach................. thumping heart..... and nervous jitters............ chemistry also contributes to that warm, comfortable feeling you get from being with a longtime partner/lover/husband.....etc

so what do u feel when u feel u are in love...............? as for what do i feel i haven't been in Love in a long time .... i do believe in love.... but its been a while so when i am ppl i will let u know

all i remember that it is a beautiful feeling .....

i believe that every time a person falls in love during there lifetime is a different experience all together becoz ur at a different step in life .... however i also believe that the basic are the same all the above and more that i haven't mentioned......

To love is to receive a glimpse of heaven.
Karen Sunde

Friendship Part 3: Would U Date Your Best Friend's EX..? I know Many WHO did ...!

continued...................

ok now ur probably wondering why i am in touch with my friends ex meat pie and that's coz the families go way back and i told my friend that i don't want to be involved in anything that goes on between the 2 of u and she is also in touch with him actually and he calls me just to say hi.....not the other way.....

so basically u all now know i am protective of my friends and family and would stand up for them when need be........ so my friend called and wanted to know what was the reason for me not talking to A and i told him if he want to know he should as her not me coz so much has happened since then that she was insignificant ....... and not to dwell on the past ......................

i know what it feel like coz i used have a couple of very good friend who did that to me ... they slept with my ex fiancee heheheh loool both of them with the same person and they were friends too hehehe and i was engaged to him another story for another post...


so basically the bottom line is that "some lines in friendship should not be crossed"

The friendship that can cease has never been real.

Saint Jerome (374 AD - 419 AD)

Friendship Part 2: Would U Date Your Best Friend's EX..? I know Many WHO did ...!

continued........

then one of my female friend met another friend of mine (a meat pie) from another group they hit it off well and for a very short moment something happened between them ..... and then it ended now my female Friends whom i will call angel 1 was still hooked on her meat pie they were now friends ....... and friend A was introduced to angel 1's kind of ex and guess what (A the back stabber knows that angel 1 still isn't over the meat pie and is still in love with him) goes and starts hanging out with him going for long walks on the beach ...... camping etc)

ok some more information A the back stabber isn't a westerner who converted to Islam ..... angel 1 is Omani but born and lived part of her life in the west too... but we all met in Oman......

anyway so A the back stabber would come and say ohhh u know i met angel 1's meat pie today and we did this and that ......and angel 1 found out coz being her best friend (15+) of friendship i told her in front of A what A had told me and then angel 1 told A that she was not ok with her doing that and that she was still hurting ......

A didn't respond so one day i called her coz angel 1 was in a bad state and was really down .....coz of the who situation..... so like i said i called A and said the back stabber that look were all friends and that what shes doing isn't right coz what she is doing is hurting a good friend and A told me that she will do as she pleases and didn't care and all men (meat pies are game) i told her fine if that's what u believe but a friend doesn't hurt a friends feelings....... and she said she didn't care so i said fine u have just redefined the meaning of friendship and i don't wish to have anything to do with u ......... (some ppl when they found out were shocked that I moi reacted this way (coz am supposed to be the nice one) ...... and i said look i have a few angels and angel 1 is an important part of my life u f*** with her( i didn't say what happened to ppl who asked me ).............. (and my other angels) is a no no no i drop anything .... that would hurt them ( u c i am a loyal friend and take my friendships seriously and their are some friends of mind u don't mess with and everyone knows that) and another thing why would i want to be friends with a woman who has no SCRUPLES really come on ....... now the only one still friends with A is B and the meat pie......

so what happened was that the meat pie called me up and said he couldn't believe i would be so mean it never crossed his mind i said to him this who thing happened sooooo many years ago and that A should let go coz i really don't care if it bothers her or not .... she was a branch of my tree that became sick and was cut off ....... i told him we all meat ppl for a reason and she was there when it was time for her to be there and now it not..... she is insignificant to me ...... i dropped her coz i didn't want to have a friend who was capable of not respecting a friendship.... that's all........

to be continued...............

Friendship Part 1: Would U Date Your Best Friend's EX..? I know Many WHO did ...!

hmmmm well i am on the road to recovery and so i went out last night and met one of my angels (my best friend) and a colleague of hers so ... we met up was very tempted to have a drink but refrained (heheheh) for some reason i felt like having one..... but didn't so .... don't worry ppl ...... so i walked in and she looked at me and said oh my god ur out with no eye liner and lipstick ..... heheh ..... even she know about my vanity but she just thinks and loves me coz am a spoilt pwincess......... like u all luv me ........

hmmm so much vanity not sooo good ..... but also good ......

ok i have something for u again ..... so i went out with mates and we were chatting .... and they were like this new (my attitude) .... and this new me is really doing well.......

ANYWAY..... a couple of days ago i got a call from an old friend who kind of had a thing with a friend of mine ( my old friend was a kind of meat pie dating my friend).... ok let me start from the beginning ....

years ago there were a group of us mince pies (we girlie's) that were very close and we were having a conversation about friendship just normal chit chat.... so some of us were saying that there are certain line in friendship that are not crossed example lying (intentionally) to a friend ( a very good friend) and hitting of ur friends meat pie or mince pie (the person that they are dating) so friend A and friend B did not agree with us and one thing led to another and they both A and B said that all meat pies are game (married or not .... dating a friend or not or engaged to a friend) so the others including my self were shocked and we couldn't believe that they would actually do something like that or even think that ...

(this was a conversation between girls) then like all conversations we were surprised but didn't make anything of it ....... i mean yes all ppl are entitled to there point of view but u don't really believe that a Friend would do something like that ...... so we kind of ignored it ................

to be continued....................

have broken this into parts since it would have been too long .....

Part 3: The Evil Eye.............. be gone ..

well this is going to be short and sweet .... the eyes are better everyone... and i would like to take this opportunity to thank u all for your well prayers and well wishing for me .....

thank u thank u thank u ...........

Make your own recovery the first priority in your life.
Robin Norwood

Part 2: The Evil Eye..............

still sick what to doo ... this is a nasty thing i seem to have caught i can barely type or read .... anyway .... so this is how it goes i went to the doctor and have been given more sick leave .... so on the way home i had to pass by the Pharmacy to pick up some other stuff that wasn't available at the gov . hospital ..... and what did i spot cerelac baby food the all natural flavour..... so i bought it my mom was just laughing ... now tell me is it wrong to eat or like cerelac ....

There's no point in being grown up if you can't be childish sometimes.
Doctor Who

Part 1: The Evil Eye..............

i know u haven't heard from me in a while i have been sick so am sorry ... am still not ok but... am dying at home i went to work this morning and they told me to go home heheheh .....so i did....

so here is what happened ... now on Monday i had a long day was out at work then went to get my hair done .... i love my hair dresser he is an absolute darling really .... he did my hair bootifully.... then i went straight to meeting...ohh there is one person of this organisation that i do not like ... i mean i have no respect for his working methods .... very unprofessional...... anyway the meeting went well ....... then i came home got ready coz i was invited out for dinner semi official evening again .... the night was brilliant and apparently i looked boooooooootiful and then some one who hadn't met me said u have boooootiful eyes ...(as usual) heheheh vanity i cant get rid of it heheheh ..... i came home and when i woke up in the morning i was under the weather.... then the next thing i know my eye is infected so i called up my friends and i was seriously ur omanis hasad feekum... heheheh and they laughed ..... (i was hit by the evil eye..) .. what to do anyway am taking med and am home ........

but last night this sick spoilt queen had to go out ... so heheheh .. i did and i had a lovey time this time just friends and i had forgotten my eye was bad till i got home ......

as for the meat pie he has been sent off to the butchery i have said no..... and the SFC'S have to wait till i recover ....

today's agenda... i have a seminar that i have to attend (not sure i will) and have an official dinner to attend that i have to go to .... aggghhhh lets see if i am not dying then i will.....(this is going to be a boring dinner really) formalities and all ....

now am off to bed .... to get some well deserved rest.....

A superstition is a premature explanation that overstays its time.
George Iles

Lead Sick Queen Back to Health

It's no longer a question of staying healthy. It's a question of finding a sickness you like.
Jackie Mason

For if they could, Cupid himself would blush .....But I have Yet to Blush...

This isn’t a controversial topic like my female orgasms hehehehe ... hey it had to be discussed ppl ….

This is about getting married …. Ok as u all know or now know I am 30 and single….lol and my mom and her friend tried to play cupid heheh it backfired unfortunately or fortunaltely.... as usual….now don’t get me wrong I don’t have a problem with arranged marriages and neither do I , if it were a love marriage and my family wouldn’t either…

but ...ohhh if only it was understood and it is so simple.... i would give the bloke a chance if i found him nice arranged or not .... and as for marrying in the family ...I am not keen on marrying my cozins loool thank god I don’t have too since the ones that are left are like in there teens or younger … heheh (cradle snatcher) yukiii.. heh he heh they say age is but a number but hey …..sometimes it can be too young….

So anyway my mom asked me to be coy and bashful and to behave .. …. Hehehh how can I do that when I am not interested in the guy ….

So I am ….bold and say what I have to say but I also know when to say it but …. This is me unless the meat pie has sparked an interest in me … it is only then I become so shy that it isn’t funny heheheh I have been in that position in a very very very ….. very looooooooooong time… that sometimes I think to myself ….will it ever happen … will it … yes it will ….. anyway I acted as though I didn’t know what was going on and made the appearance an excused myself …. Heheh the maid called me again and I sat we chatted and they left..... anyway I have said no… and that … that….. but how long will I be able to keep sending the meat pies to the butchery I don’t know … hehe let’s see….

Updates:

*heheh No meat pies thank god... 1 more sent to the butchery hehehe
*no wedding bells either …..hehehe
*SFC’s hmm was upset with them cozes only 2 kg more vanished… don’t worry ppl am still working on then I haven’t given up …..
*Thinking about next topic trying find the right way to write it ……

A great marriage is not when the 'perfect couple' comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.
Dave Meurer

Test Drive: The only Limit is UR Imagination..

The Logo of my favorite Car ---- I love








One of the classics i I will most likely own one day soon








And before the classic i believe i will own 1 of these

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Everything you can imagine is real.
Pablo Picasso(1881 - 1973)

Only I can Change My Life... No one Can Do It For ME!

Updates: (not in any order of priority):

• as u all know that i am one who like to sit at home.... but in the last week or so i have been out constantly ... something or the other comes up.. from meetings(professional events to social events)
• i am very happy coz professionally i am growing (al hamdillilah) ...
• i watched the SECRET.. laws of attraction ... it is a must see... i have been on a roll since then.....(i have learnt to forgive) and other things too
• being going out for dinners etc meeting ppl....
• and last but not least....was flirted with .... and i am just bored with the shyte that ppl come up with .....
• ahhh also meat pie alert ... my friend and i think we may have come across a Man In the Middle (MIM) .... just like the Woman In the Middle (WIM).....
• OH!!! have made a conscious decision of what i am going to have in my King of Meat Pies heheheh... and maybe just maybe will share it will u ...... hehehe and maybe i wont it all depends....;).....
• ohh! have updated my List of Things to By the Time I am 33.... have to share that with definitely....;)
• am very hyper ..... ;).... and yes i do have PLANS tonight ...what they are i don't know yet.... but i am going out (heheheheh am a bad bad bad ... girl) ....

It's not that some people have willpower and some don't. It's that some people are ready to change and others are not.
James Gordon

Part 1: The Female Orgasm .... Is for the Pleasure of Her & Him...!

OK .... this has taken a lot of thought and deliberation .... not that i am an expert on the subject ... :) yes yes yes i know many of the meat pies and mince uff all the pie categories must have gone into the deep end just with the title or this statement .... :) well i guess this is just knowledge for me ..... hehehehe ... ok my fans heheh stop side tracking me am sure this is a topic for all......

many women in relationships fake their orgasms with their partners .... many ppl all over especially in our part of the world don't discuss this openly about the likes and dislikes with their partners.... sad but true .... and many women rarely tell a man that they are the brink of an orgasm or they are not there yet since they are worried about what they might think or believe (in many cases) that the men's expectations about women's normal sexuality......about how women should perform.......are built around these many notions....... but then over time men are the ones who reflect back immediately to the woman whether or not she is adequate sexually so you really cant blame her ...... it is a fact that many men have thought that women have orgasms during sexual intercourse (by sheer penetration) FALSE ..... it is not a wham bam thank u mam ... it takes more than that....

with most mince pies (i said most/ majority) it is an act of intimacy.... u should talk discuss...(but when the time is right) not immediately after he or she roll off the other......

so here is the most important tip my Meat Pies & Nobody said it would be easy

• Foreplay.. like teasing ,kissing, touching, tasting....etc is a must to get arouse her (this i think is for both not just her)....
• Most mince pies need about 15+ minutes of clitoral or G-spot stimulation (this will get back to later) to hit the jackpot i.e to have an orgasm....
• just for information boys if there is a look of pain more than pleasure (unless she is into that) then stop... the act is not of pain it is supposed to be of pleasure ...

what does feel like well uheeem : (something i read) heheheheh

"An orgasm is the point at which all the tension is suddenly released in a series of involuntary and pleasurable muscular contractions that may be felt in the vagina and/or uterus (some women do experience orgasms without contractions). It happens when excitement seems to go over the edge -- a climax is reached which may last several seconds or longer"

contrary to what the mince pies and meat pies believe.... Masturbating is good for your health. ......Studies show that orgasm can reduce sensitivity to pain, relieve menstrual cramps, and alleviate stress—possibly due to a surge in oxytocin and dopamine

Did you know ... that i read some where that the ancient Greeks to Freud's time....... doctors stimulated orgasms in women via "medical massage" to treat the catchall female ailment known as hysteria ..... hahahahaha .....

and hmmm did you know that in the late 1800s...... the vibrator was designed for the same purpose....... to treat our ailment of hysteria ......

hehehe let ur minds wonder ...

It's just human. We all have the jungle inside of us. We all have wants and needs and desires, strange as they may seem. If you stop to think about it, we're all pretty creative, cooking up all these fantasies. it's like a kind of poetry.
Diane Frolov and Andrew Schneider

Women Who Seek to be Equal to Men Lack Ambition

William Congreve once said

"Heaven has no rage like love to hatred turned,

Nor hell a fury like a woman scorned...."

God only Help ME after this post.... i think u will all understand why i stated a woman's scorn quote.

u know what my ppl.... heheheh .... (u all know i might be kidding say... just might be..) about my ppl business ...

i am in the process of maybe not being a single mince pie (i like being single and all but decide i want more in life )...and no i don't have a meat pie or a potential one it is a thought i am processing at the moment i will list the requirements ... heheh later..

.. before i am judged heheh i will still be able to mince them...( the meat pies) and the butchery will still be open no worries hehehe ... by the way the butchery is open for the meat pies too if they want to further mince their mince pies ... don't want ppl think that i am a feminist coz am not .... hehehe ... i believe in women's rights yes but a woman is not equal to a man ... if she was to be the same then we wouldn't have been created differently.... yes yes i have opened a Pandora's box and the mince pies are going to try and crucify me well u know something girlie's..... its a fact and live with it and i am entitled to my opinions .... ok i think i need to clarify my thoughts here ... and use my self as an example...

i am a queen hehehe ... ok look i am the queen of mince pies (hahah) look i tried to be a civilian and i couldn't my fingers could type humility on my behalf (hmmm wonder what pic i am giving to all ) look u all know the vanity thing so .. i guess we have an understanding by now ...

so as i was saying i am an independent woman... have been raised in a very liberal environment... the boys were never treated differently to the girls as a general rule even extended family.... as u all my have realised (my parents are like the air i breath as i am sure is the same with many of u) both work etc and i remember parents telling me "...ur education is ur back bone ... and tomorrow (as in one day) u will get married and the only thing that we can give u is to provide u with the tools of life ..."..... so we have unspoken rule in the family unless u have a degree (minimum) don't even think of marriage... girls or boys .... ( the reason being especially for girls.. is that they the parents don't know what sort of men the husbands will turn out so to safe guard the girls they can be able to fend for themselves .... ) am sure u all understand .... as for the boy coz they need to able to support their own families....

so coming from that background .... and the freedom to travel and explore only on the basis that trust is there is amazing .... u don't feel the need to lie etc... anyway ... what i was trying to say was that being independent, strong ... and career driven and then u here the phrases she is equal to the men etc ..... i work in a male dominated environment.... and have been from the day i remember ... but.. i can still cook and sew and do all those things yes i am vain and spoilt but ppl we are the gentler sex ... (i think i side tracked a little) but i am hoping ppl understand what i am trying to say .... i remember some one i knew and still do....who didn't cook for her husband and till date doesn't and when i asked her why a while back she said she was not a maid ... i was shocked this was from a newly wed... same question asked a few years later i got the same answer she was not a maid .... so now she has a driver 2 maids one for each child and her parents or his ....cook or send food to their house ....

we were sitting down once and one of my friends said i can see that ur going to move up in the world maybe one day become minister or equivalent ... and then the topic changed and all of a sudden the was like i can see the future and we laughed and he said wala i can just see u being married to some ambassador and u the minister of xyz .... and i laughed and he said ok a question for u if u were in that position and ur partner was based abroad then ... i said very simple .... i would resign and go to where he is ..... i think many ppl sitting with us that day were aghast since i have always been a career motivated person .... and that took those who were close to me by surprise too..... anyway the whole idea was that i don't believe that mince pies and meats pies are equal..... not by a long shot.... yes women should be respected and made to feel by sheer appreciation (equal) etc .... and should be treated as intellectual beings i am not saying that just because they are not equal that a woman's existence is nominal .... she is the foundation .... of many homes .... and she should be respected ....

being respected does not mean equal ppl should differentiate......

Funny business, a woman's career:
the things you drop on the way up the ladder so you can move faster. You forget you'll need them again when you get back to being a woman. It's one career all females have in common, whether we like it or not: being a woman. Sooner or later, we've got to work at it, no matter how many other careers we've had or wanted. Joseph L. Mankiewicz

The best car safety device is a rear-view mirror with a cop in it.

yesterday ..... my vehicle was in a small tinsy weensy accident (not as bad as the pic below which is not of my vehicle), i was in the office when i got a call that someone had just hit my car anyway ... alhamdullilah nothing happened and i wasn't even in the car ... it was parked ..... and i was working in my office ....

There is no such thing as chance; and what seem to us merest accident springs from the deepest source of destiny.
Schiller

The Attempt and Not the Deed.... Confounds us

hmmmm i wonder if you missed reading my thoughts or enjoyed the subtle but direct quotes and pics .... change is good or u would have gotten bored ... now i cant have that happening could i .... i mean all the queens men and women :) heheheh ahhh see (ohh VANITY ) hmmm what can i do .... am sure u all missed it i have tried to tone it down but haven't been able to..... hmm how can one remove a part of one self ..... and am sure u all enjoy it secretly .... heheheheh ohh yes and i am also a big fan of all of u :)

now going back to an incident that happened a couple of days ago.... as u all have realised i don't go out much i go to work .... where i rule ... then come home to my castle ..... and then work on my SFC's - for those who don't know read the other blogs.... ok i will be nice .. please read my other blogs.....

anyway way soo i was on my way home from my walk ... and my friends called .." wanna go to so and so place .... " i was like ahh not sure let me go home an then let u know .." so i decided u know what ... u haven't seen them in a while and it will do u good... so i did and we went out ...... i seriously let my hair down after months and months and months ... ohh it was refreshing i had a blast ..... now when i go out i am not that approachable by ppl unless they know me.... i come across and proud and all u know and i don't mind .... but am always smiling and u know what ppl that's me .... anyway so this i had to do something and i left my table and said hello to my other friends that i knew .... and then this foreign Meat Pie come and starts chatting to me ... he seemed decent enough (ok Judgmental Meat Pies go one say it ..... that i must have given him opportunity ... ha men ....) but when i like brushed him aside and cut him off politely that was it ...then came this Local Meat Pie.... NOW TRUST me i didn't even notice him and taps me on my shoulder and complements me and i like ignore him and he was drunk so i really could not do much and it was a situation where ... u remember Mary had a little lamb and every where that Mary went her he lamb was sure to go... well he was like a lamb ....i mean i literally had to get my friend's so called Meat pie walk me to my car ...... why do meat pies do that i mean WHY.....!!!

ok i understand that ok they might be interested but ok try once and if the mince pie does not give u an invitation to pursue her then back off.... i mean if i wanted to some one to flirt with me then i would send give the vibe out and if the other person gets a muhtarm brush off like basically (f**k Off) but not in those words....then take the hint and off... don't approach ...... even other the other way some mice pies are too too too disgustingly sticky and then meat pies couldn't even care less whether the other party existed of or not ......

Updates:

• no meat pies on on the scene... those that attempt are being minced... and am getting pretty good at the mincing process .. am thinking of opening up my own butchery heheheh .. hmmm what do u think ? should I!! or maybe give courses... hmm
• my friends still love them ...
• my SFC's well they are on their way to hell.... hhhehhehehehe (parting is such sweet sorrow)
• anything else .. will let u know

How use doth breed a habit in a man.
William Shakespeare

It is with our Passions, as it is with Fire and Water....

Seduction...

is enticing someone into doing what they secretly want to do already....

Am i too scared to express what i feel like ?

No I am Not!

Think what u may... since this is how i secretly feel...

Today ....

A Moment in my Life today ...

A glimpse of how i felt today ... something of the past...now !

A picture speaks a thousand words!

Blessed is he who expects nothing, for he shall never be disappointed.
Alexander Pope (1688 - 1744)

Strawberries 'n' Cream

What is the First thought that has crossed ur mind after seeing this ?


There is nothing like good food, good wine (in the good old days), and a bad girl.

Food is the most primitive form of comfort

ok ppl have some brilliant news to share with u ...... my SFC's project working have managed to vanquish 5 kg of them yessssssssssssssssss....... now a few more to goooooooooooo......

A successful individual typically sets his next goal somewhat but not too much above his last achievement. In this way he steadily raises his level of aspiration.

Kurt Lewin (1890 - 1947)

There is no love sincerer than the love of food.

did anyone miss me ??... ahhh what to doo!! hehehehe... yesterday a friend of mine called and they were like you guys from SO and SO school are all soft and then they were like not the girls but the guys and i kind of had to agree with them there .....

" once upon a time there were a group of friends sitting in a cafe some of them were delicately sipping the coffee, some were just drinking it coz they were caffeine addicts and some were savoring the flavour but in a manly manner :)...... when suddenly the meat pie turns up and joins them ... and whines out that he needed a banofee pie an that he had to have one ..... so one of the guys who had never met him before thought to himself that he was whining like a pregnant mince pie.... when the meat pie did finally get his pie to eat he this was his response... it hit the spot .... "

and i burst into laughter ..... i mean who says "it hit the spot" please ..... anyway the reason behind this post is that we have added a new category to our list:

• meat pies: male species- MEN
• mince pies: female species- WOMEN
• um ali: female species- WOMEN
• fata'a : male species- MEN
• banofee pie: male species- SOFT MEN (not gay)

MEN= a mans man... the meat pies know what i am talking about... ;) some women like a mans man some like the banofee's

other than that wala nothing much happened...... i met up with a few friends also family had a blast .....

Tell me what you eat, and I will tell you what you are.
Anthelme Brillat-Savarin (1755 - 1826)

Being Unfaithfull........

friend of mine once wanted some advice from me .... it had to do with the fact that she was interested in a married man .....

am sure most ppl have been in that situation where they have been approched by a married person being it meat pies or um ali's ........and i my self have been similar situations where i have been asked out by married men (bad move in my eyes) ...... personally a meat pie with a mince pie in the picture is a deal breaker.......what do u think???

Dating a married man or as in to have him as a bf...........here was my reply ....... to her .... i think this would go to the the meat pies as well.... hehehe i didnt mean that the meat pies date married men hahahahah

and yes ppl justify having affairs etc..... but bottom line is its wrong ... for either of them ..

"Sure, he's charming, but he's married...... remember? i was like..... haven't u thought about the fact that he's cheating on his wife....? there are no positive reasons for dating a married man or for that matter an um ali ...........even the good reasons don't stand the test of time and this will turn out to be a bad idea..............."

• he won't commit to a future with u.
• cheating on his wife tells u how he deals with any situation he doesn't like (i said this but......)
• hiding is exhausting......... to keep ur relationship a secret can attack ur self-esteem and cause u to miss out on one of the wonderful aspects of a relationship.
• he's got his cake and is eating it tooooo ... smart isn't he many will think .....he has a legitimate married relationship that helps his public persona and he has an illegitimate one with u to make up for what he is missing in his marriage. .....as far as i am concerned... as appreciative as he sounds..... i think many many women who are involved with married men come to resent his having the best of both worlds....... when she has the least.
• how can u love someone who is so disrespectful of his wife?
• a mince pie or a meat pie shouldn't be a home wrecker..... the act just makes them an accomplice....like it or not i told her .... " u are a willing participant in a man violating his vows and betraying the trust of his wife -- not to mention grossly disappointing his children and making it difficult for them to see him as a role model"
• hhmm and beware of the guilt boomerang. .... i believe many meat pies (and mince pies) have difficulty accepting full responsibility for their deceitful actions. ......we as humans find it easier to blame than to accept shame.... we i think so
• time is too precious to waste................

.... haven't u noticed that many ppl are entering such relationships...... it is becoming more common......!

Oh!! what a tangled web we weave......When first we practise to deceive!
Sir Walter Scott (1771 - 1832)

Unless commitment is made, there are only promises and hopes... but no plans

good morning .... this is going to interesting ... i think ...anyway....:) i have had a million and one discussions on this topic with all the species around us the meat pies (what we now call the boys/ men - we still love them) and now boys ur going to be please with this .... heheh and the x'mas mince pies (what we are now going to call the girlie species) hehehe .... ok and in not so western terms fataa with rukhal (boys) and um ali (girls).... ;)

reason for names :

meat pies (men/boys): see meat pies are tasty.. salty and we enjoy savouring the few but very strong flavours in the meat and pie it self (in general) and in most cases u know that meat pies in the long run are a dependable dish and not many can go wrong with it ......

x'mas mince pies (girls/women): also tasty, but sweet and it has all the exotic flavour that are required to complete a meal, or have on festive occasions ... they may appear to be the same as the meat pies but are not .... ok mince pies don't get all ' oh yes we are exotic' remember how we area created make us exotic and seasonal ....

from the ingredients to the flavours to the aroma etc they are very different

my main point basically is that i was having this discussion and thought this needs to be shared.... no recently i have come to the realisation that i am a bit commitment phobic so that's why i avoid relationships as in (boy/ girl relationships) that is due to what i have seen and tasted in life ......;) hehe it ain't bad its just each phase of our lives is different and we as ppl are different ..... so we learn about what we want and don't want......

ok we have always put the blame on the poor meat pies about being commitment phobic ... and we will assume that it has to do with an intimacy issue rather than (now mince pies don't hate me for this) but rather than accept the painful truth that the meat pie does not want to commit to that particular mince pie.... and u know what ppl it is her fault if she is with him since he may have hinted it along right in the beginning and she just heard what she wanted to ...... also the other way we can look at it is also that a commitment means crossing the line of a comfort zone and going into one that they want to have but a associate it with the expectancy of having to grow up.............. ;) That step across the line will have a powerful impact on their lives.............(thank thank thank meat pies) i am speaking for u here ..... yes hehehe i just might be ur new best friend in the voice of a mince pie ... but i also fight for them ... more that u might want to believe .. hehehehe ....

so it is not an intimacy issue most of the time .....

now for us the mince pies... we are more complected i think i really do.... (ok shoot me girlie's) but it is true we believe in that whole fairy tail romance and either we try in out once it doesn't work and again and it doesn't work or we have seen it happen to those around us ...... so then what happens we are emotionally scared...... i have read that when a a female becomes commitment phobic she is vulnerable ... and insecure that how it is looked at due to a messy divorce ... abusive (mentally, physically, emotionally... etc) relationships ...... but on the other hand .....she also could be just career driven ... they are so attached to their career growth that they are not willing to compromise on them....... instead we want to postpone the marriage to a future date.... and then we are referred to as old even if only in late 20's or early 30's and then the community starts finding fault in her ..... correct me if i am wrong ......but such successful women invariably attract men who want to possess them..... and turn them into the boootiful GOATIES hehehehe .....

i have come to the conclusion that the phobia exists basically after taking all into account that many of the mince and meat pies in today day and age are actually looking for their SOUL MATES ................. have we not in discussions or while talking to friends mentioned at some point that that is the most important feature of what or who they are looking for ..... and that is that a soul mate is someone who will take them as they are and not try to change them......... we all want that ............... and that we don't or wont settle for second best in many cases......

Passion is the quickest to develop, and the quickest to fade. Intimacy develops more slowly, and commitment more gradually still.
Robert Sternberg

Education is when you read the fine print. Experience is what you get if you don't

hmmm well here i go now .... what did i do today nothing i was productive at work (i love what i do) and then i came home was reading something for professional certification that i am appearing for and fell asleep ... i think i was just mentally exhausted ... i then burnt some of my SFC's and now this .......

ok my readers ... i wonder how many i have .... now just for those concerned my foot has recovered and am up and about ahahahah... unfortunately not painting the town red hahahahah.... am actually a good girl hmmmm sometimes.... anyway just wanted to let u know that i am fine.....

i mean some of the ppl i know they say ohh what is the need for u to do any more studying then i have those who are like why don't u do this or that.... why education is like knowledge u need it its a back bone but u also need to educate urslf about the ways of the world....... and a wise man once said "It is only the ignorant who despise education"

Please Turn into A Goat not a Lioness......misunderstood concept!!!!

i think this is going to be one of those on going topics like all..... again i was told to become a goat that i have to strong a personality bla bla bla ... they don't realise that it doesn't bother me really that much we all entitled to our opinions.... i didn't get upset i just thought i pity this person (sorry) but even they cant make up their minds.... however it kept coming back and nagging me.... when i realised that ...... in my limited experience -- uhemmmmmm - ahahahahhaha....... when men describe us as a strong personalityi realised they actually ment intimidating............... brilliant aren't i ... hahahahaha ... so now i figure ok men r intimidated by us clearly this person is............ they r probably talking about a woman whose spirit is hard and unyielding........ and that they r intimidated by our contentious attitude........ by our chew them and spit them out ;-) ( don't worry we don't actually do that ... and the others just behave................ ahahahahahahahah) attitude.......... and women like that make them wary ...... hahaahah u cant blame the poor souls.......... we basically..... haven't understood the phrases of be a goat ........or ur personality is too strong ................. and we as feminists (hahah big word) interprate it as them being afraid of a successfull us species hehehe..... and then we react with scorn towards men ................. and think they cant or wont handle a us competent female species.............. and the light started to dawn........... another revelation ... intimidation has nothing to do with our successful performance as women .........but with our attitude of being turbulent with the pushy arrogance and impatience also sometimes self-centered.............the meat pies ............ bless them are intimidated at times ................when they think they will encounter a brick wall in trying to lead or serve a woman like this.......... i realised can put some ppl ( the men/ boys/ meat pies ) off and caused conflict..................

i believe confidence is one of the sexiest things a woman can have if she wears it intelligently...... sometimes much sexier than any body part....... hahahahahah...............

so meat pies or our (am speaking on behalf or the women) heheheh ....men dont be intimidated by us again please..................

And since you know you cannot see yourself,so well as by reflection, I, your glass,will modestly discover to yourself,that of yourself which you yet know not of.
William Shakespeare

Do I Make Thee Loins Burn With DESIRE ? Via Technology !!!

i was asked to write more ohhh and i have fans now .... what more do i need to boost my already inflated self and ego..... hahaha ... readers be warned as far as i am personally concerned i may state that too much vanity is not good but hay i am sure as u all have realised i give a new meaning to vanity .... aaaaahhhhh (sighs)..... now the next topic is going to be written on a piece meal basis ......

there is a lot that can be written about as far as drama goes i have it all around me.... so here i go ... ok ...

this is an issue that seem to be their but not spoken of actually..... PHONE SEX.... (honestly and personally.... something that doesn't appeal to me) i have a theory that i am sure many share and many don't .... and the theory is :

' if god wanted us to have sex via the phone or whatever the tech. is called today .... then why did he create adam and eve.....'

personal view phone sex unnatural ....

now the reason i brought it up was coz i have on numerous occasions been told that i have a sexy voice .... i have been bothered when wrong numbers have been answered ..... my male friends and they are just friends have told me that even some of my straight female friends too ..(had to say straight god only know how u ppl think really now ...) hahahahahah ....

lets say A meat pie calls (we will call the male species meat pies from now even when talking in general) ha ... sorry boys .... i have nothing against men promise ;-) and lets say the meat pie is one that u don't mind checking out the ingredients (ppl understand it the way u want) hahahah.... so ur talking flirting the mughazala is going on and towards the end of the night things like breathing becomes slower voice pitch starts going lets say very low anyway on both ends and some time the girls (bad bad bad) hehehe initiate or feed the potential to talking dirty or the men start asking what ur wearing ... its become an old line ppl ..... aaaaaaaaaaagggggghhhh

now with me its happened when i say no non of ur business and want to change the topic the guy just persists i have felt shyte on many occasions where i have had to never speak to the guy again or have to cut off even as friends coz they dont understand no no no no ... u know what ppl now what i am about to declare is not vanity i have alhamdulliah a nice voice.... but it has its downfalls even when i am at work and i answer my phone ppl think i have just woken up and sound sooooo gooood and i am like no am working .. was deep in thought ..... ppl ..... sometimes i find it hilarious when some of my good friends call men and women call they make fun of my voice .... but there are some ppl when they call who are acquaintance's and even potential meat pies (yes ppl plural for the pies...) and the ones that are not meat meat pies should be mined.....

anyway why should one keep all eggs/ meat pies in one basket ........ oh my god can u imagine what my critics will do to this topic and my statements .... they will just show how shallow they are and even ejoy the humor in my playfulness..... i cant do anything about my voice ... i really cant ..... what to do .... i do believe some men have just amazing voices dont u girls hehehehehe...... i mean once i got a phone call and when i answered this man with and extremely velvety deep voice said hello may i speak to ' ahem and he asked for me' and i said speaking who is calling plz and he gave me his name now his name did not ring a bell and he said ur baba gave me ur number and i wanted to say hello ..... i thought hmm i must know him but couldn't recollect and he laughed also ohh very sexy voice... now i said once second the only person with ur name that i know is an uncle so and so and he laughed and said how are u bintii (my daughter) he hadnt seen me in 15 years or more and i said 3ami u disappointed me i thought a sexy guy kan bajghi yet3araf 3alai ... and we both laughed and laughed and he said i am sitting with ur father plz come and join us .... and now honestly that uncle has one of the sexiest voice i have heared.....(non of u were expecting that were u) i just find it funny.... the story...

anyway ..... the other point is that if phone sex does take place then why is it tabooo and why do ppl think of it as inappropriate ... its and expression of feeling (i mean just coz i dont like it that doesn't mean that everyone should agree with my theory) there are ppl who do enjoy it ..... and its also another way of getting close to the other person especially in our part of the world and again its ostracised.....

I'm too shy to express my sexual needs except over the phone to people I don't know.
Garry Shandling

up dates:

1. meat pie: has been minced ...... hahahaha... has been told to go take a hike coz am not interested in dating and finally understood (i hope)
2. friend who saw me where i wasnt: same as meat pie.... ohh no no no no dating women for me i meant she was told to take a hike too
3. all other i still love .... hehehe :) a hand full who read the blog and the rest who dont know of its existance......
4. as for my SFC's - Sexy Fat Cells... yep we nearly forgot about them ..... actuall i had to take a break since i had injured my sweet footyyy while walking ..... so i start again today......wish me luck ppl....

See u all Later ppl .................. Read with an OPEN mind

April Fool's Day

some thing on april fools day that i read:

The history of April Fool's Day or All Fool's Day is uncertain, but the current thinking is that it began around 1582 in France with the reform of the calendar under Charles IX. The Gregorian Calendar was introduced, and New Year's Day was moved from March 25 - April 1 (new year's week) to January 1.
Communication traveled slowly in those days and some people were only informed of the change several years later. Still others, who were more rebellious refused to acknowledge the change and continued to celebrate on the last day of the former celebration, April 1. These people were labeled "fools" by the general populace, were subject to ridicule and sent on "fool errands," sent invitations to nonexistent parties and had other practical jokes played upon them. The butts of these pranks became known as a "poisson d'avril" or "April fish" because a young naive fish is easily caught. In addition, one common practice was to hook a paper fish on the back of someone as a joke.
This harassment evolved over time and a custom of prank-playing continue on the first day of April. This tradition eventually spread elsewhere like to Britain and Scotland in the 18th century and was introduced to the American colonies by the English and the French. Because of this spread to other countries, April Fool's Day has taken on an international flavor with each country celebrating the holiday in its own way.

wonder how many ppl have played the april fools prank today do let us know .... fools rush where fools have been before .... ;-)

Lord, what fools these mortals be!
William Shakespeare (1564 - 1616)

Change is the constant, the signal for rebirth, the egg of the phoenix

.ahhhhhhhhhh yes the bank thing was Shite I KNOW...... but i had a lovely weekend i don't know about the rest i hope all had a good time ...... i met up with one of my bestest friends after a while .... we both have just been so busy with nothing and yet everything .... that we haven't had a chance to meet up ...... we went to beach location and had a brilliant time myself, she and her significant other (now that is something i might write about one day ..... like myself (ohh vanity again .. was wondering what happened to it .. hhahahahahahah - and its back) i was saying that i would like to write about me one day...... yes yes yes i know ur all saying could she be any vainer (if that is not a word then now it is ahhahahhaha) this was yesterday... and the day of my feud with the banks we went out for dinner ..... lovely tooo.....

however ... the night we went out for dinner to a nice restaurant..... now u have to keep in mind i haven't really been out in a while and to that place its been like over 7 months (eeeeyyyy) and it used to be my favorite restaurant in town once upon a time .... now i reached there and of course had my vehicle vale parked and we went my friend and myself ..... and initially it was nice and quiet and then i was shocked and it takes a lot to shock me ... trust me .... the girls and guys were good so young and looked so old and just flaunting themselves and this is a nice restaurant gone bad....... about an hour and a half later we left and went else after we ate .......

generally it was a good weekend i loved it .......

oh by the way just before i end i just wanted to say something:

'A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort...... i say this coz i seem to have upset ppl with my blogg ....... which is quiet surprising coz they are still reading it ...... haahahah hmmm hypocrisy what to do ..... i have even been told that i shouldn't have written what i did in my post titled Character is what God and the Angels know of us ...Reputation is what men and women think of us.. well u know what ..... if they are annoyed then more power to them and they shouldn't read my blogg and if they are then criticism is good and i have interesting topics to write about ...... so hey i said it before and will say it again .... hmmm I have the power...... ;-)'

and all i can say about life is Oh God ....Enjoy it ...!!!! and very little is needed to make a happy life.......... Life is a foreign language; all men mispronounce it......................

In anger we should refrain both from speech and action.

GUESS.... am sure u cant.... i was fuming today .... every Thursday i have a class ..... this got cancelled fine better for me .... since i have a less strenuous evening and can go out and play .... heheheheeh and look as booootiful as i can (ahh vanity again) hehehe

anyway so i left class and thought ok need to fill some gas.... found 1 atm machine and it was not working so then found another which isn't my bank but it had to do since i needed to fill gas and for some reason my wallet was poor this afternoon :) ..... i went to the atm machine another i spotted close to the filling station and it said insert card so i did ..... then it went off and said Windows shutting down and the a msg appeared 'sorry for the inconvenience but this machine is out of order' i was like what the f**k so i called up the emergency help line and they couldn't do anything and then called up my bank and said that the other bank is refusing to help anyway .... i have to wait till Sunday now ....

so anyway my mom called up and told her i was on my way home since my class had been canceled and she asked me what my plans were i told her am sitting at home and told her what happened to bless her she left me money at home since she was on her way out ..... ohhh bless her and then i cried .... well just 2 drops since i felt bad i don't like asking my mom and dad for money coz i am a big girl and .... anyway a wise man once said:

I believe that banking institutions are more dangerous to our liberties than standing armies.

Thomas Jefferson (1743 - 1826)

HAVE A LOVELY WEEKEND PPL

Character is what God and the Angels know of us ...Reputation is what men and women think of us...

where do i begin with this ... hmm lets see... ok... once upon a time i used to enjoy my glass of wine .... or my non virgin drink ... :-) those were the days since i dont drink anymore .... however, i still enjoy my ciggies .... i used be a social animal .. and as a very dear FRIEND of mine says to me ' U R the QUEEN ' ... so this is what i meant when i said earlier that its not my fault i am spoilt or vain ;-) kidding .... ok going back to the topic i was the one 99% of the time who was the organiser of the gatherings, dinners and outing or even just to sit and chill ..... that was my official job after working hours was to create a schedule for all and call all involved so that they would have an entertaining day with friends ... chilling and partying...... including moi most of the time...

a while back i took a back seat .... and the glue that kept them all together dissolved .... with fair warning of course ..... due to lots of personal reasons (nothing whatsoever to do with my friends or family) this was a choice i made .... to being out of the lime lite......

anyway something funny happened this week and this is the reason for what i have written since this affects many (however personally i dont care) :

1. there is a person know as someone i just know - who we will refer to as meat pie (whether he is yummy or not i would not know or want to know) there was a time in year dot that yes maybe i would have been interested in checking out the ingredients of the meat pie -- hahahahah but know ... there is no way..... how shall i put it ..... the meat pie gives me indigestion and ulcers ..... now Meat pie called me and asked me if i knew a girl i said no ... then they told me about the girl and where she lived and i was like yes but that was a long time i go i had gotten to meet her through other friends that's all it..... and then i am told she has been bad mouthing me now i haven't spoken or seen the girl in over what 6 years why would she do that (giving her the benefit of the doubt ) and even if she did .... what do i care .... the tongue in like a whip which can break but has no bones .... so i ignored it and that's that....

2. i get a text msg telling me off for the other night for being all over the place and drunk and that she thought i didn't go to such places..... from a female friend.... NO... i would not call her a friend ....an acquaintance who happens to say hi from time to time a nice person i think ...... shall i surprise u all as to where i actually was ..... I WAS AT HOME in BED ..... Asleep by i think it was 10.14 pm .... now i was invited to the place and was going to go since it was a special occasion a ..... a friend's daughters were celebrating their Birthday.....

as far as i am concerned i really don't care what ppl say or think coz i know myself......

however the reason for such a (mundane) introduction was because of the theory that ppl men and women have behind women who drink .. there is are labels behind men drinking but it ain't as harsh as it is given out to the women.... and also then of course sex is associated with alcohol and then labeled with having very very bad reputation .... ;-) its not just a problem of perception here in this part of the world but its everywhere ...... we live in such a hypocritical world and such tunnel visioned ppl .... just coz a girl does what she does in public that doesn't mean the ones who are covered up and and pretending to be holier than thou don't do that behind the scenes .... what is that quote ... ' Better the Devil U know than the one U don't'

why do ppl do that .....why cant they get off thier high horses and wake up to reality that .... not everyone who does things that are taboo to our society and tradition should be judged negatively....

Guard your Honour.... Let your reputation fall where it will..... and out live the Bastards....

i once read somewhere that .... Reputation is for time and character is for eternity......

The Fact : the meaning of friendship

again excited since i was taken to work by my mom..... :) anyway u all know from yesterday what happened ...... same thing this morning .... :)

i usually have long days at work but i enjoy my work ..... however today has been exceptionally long .....

actually i am disappointed...

i think it is due to the realisation and acceptance of a fact .... i think this fact has been at the back of my head but i didn't want to digest it since i would be sick if i did.... i guess i have slowly started to come to terms with this fact, unfortunately such is life and that's the way the cookie crumbles..... :-)

the fact : the meaning of friendship

i have nothing more to add to this today maybe later ..... but hey ppl ;-)

hmm i wonder the few that know me .. what they might be thinking after this ..... :)

What About Love ..... ???I was Asked !!!!

i was asked this morning by a friend: what about love and me ..... here's the deal .... all i could think of was romeo and Juliet, Cleopatra and Julius Cesar, the love story ... u know the classic love story we all dream about being part of well not tragic part but the ... romantic sensual part.... it then dawned upon me that that hasn't happened to me yet ..... :) what can do am a hopeless romantic........... and am very picky....

it is a process.... not an action nor a condition. ..... a process that is demonstrated by the illustration of a person walking from point A to point B.........and a meaningful duration transpires between initiation and completion

in general now ...we all have experience or believed that were were in love with xyz or someone and different stages of life bring different emotions wants reactions so ...... but personally i cant say weather i have or haven't i do believe i was and anyway we both decided that we would be disastrous as a married couple even though the families did hope we would tie the not but decided to remain friends .....

i came to a realisation recently (a couple of weeks ago) that i am tired of being single .... i know what i want and if the right man comes along then yes i will make that COMMITMENT something i am terrified of doing .... as for relationships I.E BF/GF business i am utterly hopeless i believe i would make the lousiest GF ever ........... hahahaah .... now the vanity .... i also believe that the poor sole who decides that i am the woman of his dreams will be very lucky ;-) al hamdullilah for him i mean .... hahah (look my vanity is part of this deal u just have to live with it coz am so shweet) ;-)

the following are a couple of the ingredient for my recipe of my man:

• ahhh he has to be tall .. (sorry boys but in oman not many of u are .. with all my due respect) :)
• and a lot of sense of humour

i am going to let u in on my version of my perfect man in piece meal ..... it looks like i will forget what i wrote in the beginning by the end or the list will be never ending .... god help us all.... to be continued

i believe that if you go looking for love u will never find it but once u stop it happens to fall right in your lap. <--- i believe this was written by me ... haahahahahahah

"Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind, and therefore is winged Cupid painted blind".

by: William Shakespeare

Mama took me to Work today.....

i had a lovely morning... i usually have nice mornings but .. today was exceptionally lovely ... now nobody is allowed to laugh at me coz bes no one is ..... u c ppl my car has gone for a couple of repairs and the driver was busy with god only knows what so my mom took me to work .... and i loved it i felt like i did when i was in school in the good old days .... it was exciting ... i sound like a kid and u all are probably wondering hmm she is 30 and so immature ... it has nothing to do with immaturity .... i just have a fantastic (mashaalah) relationship with my parents both mom and dad....... and you know my mom especially does the same thing that she did when i was a wee thing when shes driving like hold my hand or touch my face with affection hmm:) and then i take pinch her cheek and say ma i looooovvveee uuuuu ... hhahaha now she laughs and says don't do that and i know she loves it... as for baba hahahahahahahah he just gave up on me and has learnt to accept that there are certain habits like the one mentioned above that will not change no matter how old i get.....

like i said in my first blog

" if we had the concept of multiple lives in Islam then i would pray that they be my parents...fore better parents i could never have asked for ... "

(god always keep them in good health and all)

now the funnier part in all of this is that mama has decided that she has found this absolutely gorgeous man whom she described as a Greek god that she want to match make with me (hehehe) her 30 yr old single very picky daughter ... (one of the many women in the middle) :) ... i mean what can i say i laughed and changed the subject ... i mean which parent doesn't want to c there child settle down ..... ohhhhh anyway <---- another topic altogether .... so now we go back to what i did yesterday .... yes ppl i did burn some of those SFC's am very proud of me self ;) after went home.... was with parents.... and opened some books for this course that i have enrolled in.....

by the way before i forget ... i understand the comments but is one supposed to to reply to them coz i just did .....

as for the rest of the day lets see what it has to unfold for me ......

The Women In The Middle ------

i don't known how far ppl are completely honest with the blog business..... i have been selectively truthfully i have not twisted facts but have been selective in what i would like everyone to know....

unfortunately i was not happy about that and maybe just maybe that's why i was kinda rambling on ..... in the last couple of posts..... (hehehe i sound like i have a archives full of my posts) anyway......

i had initially wanted to call this blog The Women In The Middle (this is to be copyrighted to me since it is going to be the potential title of my future book) ---- or more so The Bitches In The Middle (inspired by the book why men marry bitches) Hey !!! what can i say ...

now i didn't name my blog that coz i assumed probably correctly that many ppl will miss understand that i might be in a situation of being a mistress or caught in a triangle of love etc... when i say women in the middle i mean girls / women like my self and so many others in this part of the world ... in a nutshell ... we are too local for the westerners and too western for the locals ... IE therefore... we are in the middle neither here nor there...many might agree many might not...... but it is a fact .... we cant deny and its a growing situation in our society.....

i have sat down in many a gathering us girls sometimes the guys over cigarettes an coffee and discussed this issue but our views have become quite extreme since many of my friends and i don't have a problem with being ourselves in public.....now again we don't disrespect any traditions or cultural values in fact we rather support it ...... surprise surprise.... :) but we are not afraid of who we are ......
i have on many occasion from men FRIENDS.....been asked why are women not telling us the truth.... my answer to them is that if many girls reveal there true like and dislikes or passions ...etc she will be criticised and frowned upon ..... and when she plays the part of the O' so Virtuous One or as i like to phrase it (sharifat maka) then, they are just tunnel visioned and narrow minded etc its a catch 22 situation ... so US WTM's get stuck and then men get confused or crafty or just having a good time ..... we are not in may cases taken seriously .....

recently i was told i have a flaw ... a negative quality (moi, me , ana....) i was mortified (heheheh being the o all so royal one and spoilt) that someone a friend had actually said that i had a flaw (i am so close to perfection it isn't even funny) hahahahahahaahahaha sorry couldn't help it anyway going back to my negative quality..... :( sad sad sad anyway they said i had to Strong a personality and any man would prefer to tone me down or he should have a stronger personality that myself .... so they came up with the solution that i should become a GOAT .. a cute fluffy one .... it all good for fun and games and to have a good laugh but what he said made sense.... to a degree.... god i need a cigarette......

anyway..... that was part of my thoughts if u' would like to say anything please dooo ... am off home now and will have my ciggies in the car.....

The Queen Has Power!!!

well am sure u all remeber my first title where i questioned if i had the power even though i was a queen .... !

i just had a revelation...i do have the power... i am a queen and i do have the power .....!!!! haha More Power to Me ....!!

so how has my day been so far since my last post ohh rejuvenating and it will continue for the rest of the day .....

a friend claims he is a jerk but is in fact one of the finest men i know and i am honoured to have him as a FRIEND in my life he made a discovery about me a long time ago however i disagree its a new discovery he has made that when i want to change the topic or get embarrassed i start giggling and change it to a laughing matter.....he is currently stating at this very moment that this is not going to stop him or his thoughts......

as long as men can breath, or eyes can c...... so long lives this and this gives life to thee....

Let me not to the marriage of true minds

i almost for got the title

yesterday i had a few interesting things happen to me :

now in my previouse blog i mentioned that i wanted to share something with my readers but am sorry folks the topic is just too sensitive and it isnt mine to tell so respecting the other persons privecy i am not going to bring it up..... however i have to let u know it gave me a sleepless night ...

i did sleep but with worry anyway....

i had made this decision a long time ago that i am sick and tired of ppl who think even though i have not given them the right to be involved in my life to run it for me where do they get off doing things like that .... i mean unless i have said something to the other person or asked for the help or support my life is mine ... and then them raising there voices at u ... that all BS .....

on the who inhad a lovey day and looks like today wll even be nicer ....

as for the battle of the SFC = sexy fat cells thats still going strong so far .... with all my aches and pains .... lol what out ppl here i come again ...( more power to my VANITY ............. HAHAHAH)


i have to go back to work ... but will leave u with this :

by william sheakspear sonnet 116
Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:
O, no! it is an ever-fixed mark,
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.
Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come;
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
If this be error and upon me proved,
I never writ, nor no man ever loved.

keep in mind that this is a love poem written by a man to another man, and that the one impediment to their marriage is precisely that, for no church of the time, or scarcely even today, permits a man to marry a man....


have a lovely day

The poor SFC's that burnt and vanished into the air...

i have had an interesting weekend ...... hmmm i wonder what thoughts crossed my views minds about my Interesting weekend.... plz do Tell....:)

now as i mentioned in my earlier post i did burn some of my SFC (for those who don't know they are my sexy fat cells) over the weekend it was sheer torture .... trust me ... however i whined about it for 2 days but i have to say it was refreshing the walk no the whining ... i feel bad for me friends who had to listen to me whine .................... well ppl i am going again for my walk ... with my bleeding blistered feet .. and aching waist , hips and arms even my hair was in pain..... now now no laughing ... :)

as for today i at work had a few meetings ...... work was normal not much went on there....

a situation has recently cropped up and am contemplating if i should discuss it here and gain all opinions or wait and see then maybe talk about it on line ..... directly linked with me but hey ..... :)

am off for now and if my figure can type after the walk we will meet again
:)

A Peek into a Part of My Day......

Good morning ...... :-)

why am i so cheerful? no specific reason..... :-)

now lets see where 'o where should i start ..... so for this is what my day has been like (not that many would be interested) ...:

• woke up at 6.15 am this morning, hehheheh (of course i did) the blog exists so far ;-), well i got up and finally brushed my teeth (something i had been meaning to do for a while now (kidding) :-), took a shower, got ready etc... etc... etc... u know how the drill is for those who work on a Thursday ..... shite isn't it... but hey what can anyone really say ...
• i drove down to work listening to listening to good old Frank Sinatra (i do love his music) reached my destination and went into the office by then it was 7.43 am
• walked into my department and then ppl started trickling in one by one.... i said hi and good morning skimmed through the morning papers
• OK...... now comes the interesting part ... i have this habit (now some may find it thoughtful and some may find it annoying) ... every now and then i send sms's to all of my close friends first thing in the morning or sometimes at some point in the day.... just to tell them that they are important to me and that i haven't forgotten or am not ignoring them .... (i think its nice) especially looking at every ones life style ... ppl are just too busy for anything ... don't u agree?!?!?!
• during all this ppl, dont worry i am doing work .... there is a phrase .. jack of all trades and master of non.... hahahahaa that is what i like to believe that i am.....multi tasking is what i do....:)
• i even wrote this .....

this all came about after i checked out some of the other bloggs and finally realised that there isn't a standard of what a blogg should be like its basically more like an online diary or is one ... what ever way it is looked at its there for us .... i liked the way many have personalised their bloggs ... hopefully will end up doing that to mine ... am still a new born in the blogg world (ohhhh so sweet) ;-)

As for my plans for the for the weekend ....

• go walking on the beach (have decided need a new sexier look.... ahhh such vanity again) hehehe no no seriously need to shed a few of those SFC short for Sexy Fat Cells ....
• then am supposed to be meeting up with a few friends .... now i hate choosing but it all depends if i havent died by the time i work the SFC's (they are such stubborn bastards)
• then home and bed i have to have a so called Early night since i have a a work shop on something to my interesting to the rest of the world not in my field would find it boring....starting at 8 am agggghhhh i so wanted to sleep but hey what to dooooo....

ppl i still love my life ..... ;-) have a lovely day.... to be continued......

Mothers Day......she said thank u for making me a MOM!!

well now here i am 2nd day and am still slightly unsure about this whole blogging business.... now whats really odd is that i do believe that i am one of those few ppl that rarely run out of words or things to do HHHAAA such VANITY...

and here i am discovering that posting on here has given me the 2nd writers block i have faced... quite bizzare since on of the reasons of creating the blog was so that i may over come my initial writers block that i am facing with the novel that i am still in the process of completing.... and hopefully will finish....

the only positive thing about today is that it is mothers day... now we all agree that most of us have the best moms in the world .. there are very few who would disagree.. as far as i am concerned and i am bias.... i i have always claimed my moms the bestest in the wide world... well u know what all moms are the best ... just so that i don't make anyone upset especially today....

as usual i went shopping (mind you, something i hate doing.. ) unless it is a necessity.. which this was i mean come on i would do anything for my mom so anyway... i went i got her a few things got the gifts wrapped and wanted to sneak them into the house ... so that at the stroke of 12 , midnight i would give them to her now she was out side the house seeing of a friends of hers and i had just driven in and she wondered why i was waiting anyway she saw the gifts and the whole surprise had been ruined but she was on top of the world and loved her gifts but before all she told me when i told what the presents were for she said:"baby, you shouldn't have your my mothers day gift.... and thank u for making me a mom, and a very proud one as well" ....

and of course i said:" if we had the concept of multiple lives in Islam then i would pray that she would always be my Mother...fore a better mother i could never have asked for ... "

i think i will end this blog for now ..... and maybe keep u updated on how i spent my mothers day with my mom....

I am A Queen But Do I Have the Power?

While i was trying to create my first blog... i said to myself " what is this that i am doing or creating?, it is a form of art! or something else.....!!

After hours of pondering i realised with some degree of certainty that what shall be created here will be a form of art.....hmmmm so much confidence i thought to myself was not a good sign... and this is where it all begins ...

so come my friends, and give me your hand so i may take u into my world..... it is very beautiful over there........

note .. memoirs of an omani princess created by myself... however i was facing a small technical problem so am starting a fresh....